harvej Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I am using NC to heal and its working quite well now. I pondered this question while walking today for those on this board that really want their ex back. Mike888, myself and others dealt with women with BPD or bi-polar disorders. Mine may have been a sociopath to some extent. My gut tells me that NC with these types of people is a lost cause, and gives false hope as their disorder prevents them from feeling empathy and loss. They just jump into another relationship, albeit a rebound, but if they are co dependant, they can fake love as a means to an end. So question to the group. In our situation, do you really think these people would ever contact you anyway? I seriously doubt it,and assume the others here would agree. These personality disorders cause them to blame you for not calling them! LOL! So, perhaps we can enlighten some of these folks who post NC to win their ex back, what their odds are IF they have been involved with the above type of people displaying these behaviour disorders or traits. It might help them use NC to move on and heal vs to hope NC forces their ex's return. Thoughts?
BoredAgain Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I don't know about those disorders, but I thought the idea of NC was always used to heal.
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