Sunflower2179 Posted May 26, 2004 Posted May 26, 2004 I just started working at a new place. It's been about a month now that I have been there. Recently, I have noticed that there is one guy who seems to be interested in me. I noticed it a week ago, he started having a huge smile when we passed each other in the hall and saying hi. The other day, I was going to lunch and he got on the elevator with me (I'm on the 4th floor and he was on the 3rd floor - I work on the 4th floor and he works on all the floors) it was just me and him. He asked me if I was new and how I liked working there and about the weather. We had a nice little chat, too bad we got to where I was going. When the elevator doors opened, I left in a hurry, I didn't say bye or see you later or anything like that. I felt really bad about doing that. But that is my problem, I am really nervous and shy around guys that I either like or have a little crush on. It's like I can't talk. The day after the elevator chat, we saw each other again and we just said hi. He looked very happy to see me. Plus, I have noticed him looking in my direction, but when he notices me looking or "catching" him looking he turns away. I'm not sure if he likes me or if he is just being nice to me. Does he like me & wants to get to know me? And what can I do to let him know that I'm not stuck up and that I am interested in getting to know him better? Any thoughts & replies would be great, thanks!
Author Sunflower2179 Posted May 26, 2004 Author Posted May 26, 2004 Plus, I currently have a live in boyfriend. Any help on ending this relationship with him would be helpful. I feel guility when I think about ending the relationship because I know it will hurt my current boyfriend and I know he won't be able to afford to live in the apartment alone. The new guy from work, has nothing to do with ending the relationship with my current boyfriend, I felt like this for awhile now. THANKS!
Shasta Posted May 26, 2004 Posted May 26, 2004 In regards to your current, live in boyfriend...you need to just tell him your not happy in the relationship. You need to be honest with him! None of the, I just need time alone crap. Be straightforward with him and end the relationship! With the guy that you like, when you catch him looking at you, give him a smile and wave. Also, if you run into him like you did in the elevator, maybe flirt a little. Ask him if he has a girlfriend, what he likes to do for fun, etc. Maybe you two could even go see a movie if he likes movies. Just be completely open and honest with him and I'm sure things will work out. It seems to me from what you have been saying about how he looks at you and stuff, that he very well could be interested in you.
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