kikilove Posted May 26, 2004 Posted May 26, 2004 Hello, Im not very good at expressing my self but I need help. I have been with my bf for 1 year 3 month, things have been real rocky lately. Everything started in December when his Dad passed away. I know its hard for him but just a couple a days ago I told him that our relationship has become distant in response he told me that he needs space to think and organize his life. My questions is do I take it as I need space (break up with me) or should I just take what he is willing to give me ... a couple of hours a week? What to do. I feel so confused.
johan Posted May 26, 2004 Posted May 26, 2004 1) Respect his request. What else can you do? 2) He should realize he owes you more of an explanation. I don’t think it’s fair of him to leave you wondering what’s really going on. A little communication wouldn’t hurt. Someone should remind him that he isn’t the only person on Earth. If he's considering break up or if he just needs space, he shouldn't leave you hanging while he gets it together. That way you can decide for yourself whether to accept whatever time he's willing to give you.
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