indecisive1 Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 I am 31, and recently got out of a 6year relationship with a man who is 12 years older than me, and I havent dated in many years because I have been in long term relationships for a long time. since I broke up with my last bf, I have been flirting with a handsome guy who is 4 years younger than me; and we have hooked up twice. I am not in this for anything serious, and neither is he, as he recently got out of a longterm relationship too. All our flirtations have been very superficial and sexy. And last night, we were fun, sexy texting, when he asked me "am i your boy toy?" I hate that term, and so I replied, "no. I respect you more than that. But I will play whenever you want to" he didnt respond, and an hour went by, and so like an idiot, I sent another reply that said "that was a loaded question...can we go back to talking sexy" and still no response.... I'm afraid he took this as a sign of 'i want more than sex'.... i just want to let him know I don't want anything serious, is there anything I can say or do that will reverse this. I am probably going to run into him this evening, should I text him something before I see him or just wait til then. I appreciate any advice! Thank you.
KathyM Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 Don't chase him, don't text him. If he still wants to pursue something with you, he'll let you know. The ball is in his court now. If he hasn't responded to your last two texts, any further texting/calls from you will come across as desperation on your part.
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