ikcud Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 Ok here's my story. I was going to transfer my uni towards Uni of Toronto as my girl was dreading about the distance for quite awhile. One month pior before me going to get a interview done with UT over there, we had alot of problems and decided to call it off intill I come there. She was really sweet still saying she will do alot of things for me as the city is quite unknown me, helped me booked the hotel and the routes to get there. I was busy with work and exams so I couldn't come on till the last wk before the date of me going there. So here I am, it's been almost 2 weeks and there no word from her. I lost all contact of her phone and address as they were all in my laptop and phone which was stolen during this trip. I remember she told me she worked at a particular company so I went to the one around here asking if they could help me out. Problem was they wouldn't and most of the register only comes out with numbers and no staff names. Her best-friend usually talks to me too so I'm stumped on why I'm being blowed off hard. Well since I got really pissed off, I decided to go out to a night club to settle my head. I was so drunk that apparently I opened my situation to some randoms. They told me did you ever think about something might of happen to her and so on? So here I am, thinking WTF? What to do? They told me to look up for a private investigator but I have no infomation beside her name and a company she works for. What do I do really?
ate_the_paint Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 Wow, that's hard! This is the problem with long-distance relationships. It's impossible to do anything from far away. So her friend isn't talking to you too? Do you have each other on facebook or anything else like that? Without any other contact information, it's impossible to know what's going on until you get there. How far from Toronto are you?
Author ikcud Posted November 29, 2011 Author Posted November 29, 2011 I've been in around the vaughan area where going down to UT is a long proccess -.o. I came to vaughan for her so with her helping me out and so on, presume we could get this along again. No she deleted her facebook for a good 8 months now as her friends her on that list, I can't really find that list. I usually block my list too. I didn't take consideration this would happen so I never actually bothered added them. Just talk to them through IM group chat and so on. I'm only here till the 4th so... I kinda need to find answers -.o... It's been depressing the last 2 weeks.
TMichaels Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 ikcud, Have you tried any of the online "people search engines?" Have a look here for some that might be helpful. Can you remember her email address at all? Might she have had one with yahoo or gmail? If so, try plugging it into spoke.com and see if anything comes up. Best of luck to you -- and take care, TMichaels
TMichaels Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 ikcud, Obvious typo in my earlier post. Try spokeo.com *not* spoke.com. Best, TMichaels
Author ikcud Posted November 30, 2011 Author Posted November 30, 2011 thanks for the websites but unfortunately noting. I'm pretty much out of ideas now -.o. Like really, I'm about to give up.
Author ikcud Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 I like to say, Toronto a great city with nice people. I love the cold weather here where down back my country its usually hot. Some females took a liking of me and my accent but as the state I am and the person I am, I kindly refused. Staying a place over 3 weeks of the unknown was the most lowest point of my life. I came in with hope and excitement, but I gonna go back with the most broken down mentally. We would of had our anniversary on the 26th of Nov and my birthday on the 1st Dec, but on these days... I'll be drinking down my sorrow on answers and trying to forget about them for the night. I've had many hardship in life and this probably has been the last straw for me. Thank you everyone and good bye =3.
alliecat22 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Hi There, If you know her last name and are really worried, you should try calling local Toronto hospitals and see if she was checked in anywhere. Good Luck!
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