intuition Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 (edited) Hello, I have been dating with this girl for 1.5 years now. she is the first girl i slept with. I'm 26, and she is 23. About 2-3 months into the relationship she kept on saying that i should test the waters (sex only with other girls), but i always put it aside, because i thought that it would be considered cheating. Throughout the relationship she has kept on stating the fact that she would rather that i test what's out there now rather then later. Therefor i came up with the idea that i would feel more comfortable doing a girl with her. At first she seemed hesitant, because it is extremely complicated to setup, but she seemed pretty interested about the idea. I've also warned her that if she opens that door for me to fool around, that i wouldn't open the door for her. She said it was fine because she has been with men in the past (before our relationship). Therefor it isn't the same. I think that the she likes the sense of competition that it would bring, because after texting back and forth about the 3some all day. When i arrived at home she jumped on me for satisfaction, and would be like this is what another girl would do, but i would do it like this. Also that night she had the biggest O of her life (I usually always give her one), but she said it like nothing she had ever felt before. What do you guys/girls think? Should i open the door and test the waters, should we try to setup a 3some, or should i just ignore what she says. Thank you Edited November 29, 2011 by intuition
Ariadne Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 Hey, Sounds like a good fantasy that is somehow making your relationship sexier. Nah, I'd say just play along but I don't think there is a need to actually have a 3some. Have fun.
veggirl Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 I think it's very odd your gf is suggesting you be with other women. I don't recommend it. Are you satisfied with just her? If so, then why risk messing things up? It just seems like a recipe for disaster. How would this work? You just go find a girl and ask her if she will let you f*ck her "my gf says its okay!" and then go home to your girl at the end of the night?! Yuck! 3somes are usually disasterous for relationships. Don't do it. Why is your girl so adament on your trying out other women? Weird.
azsinglegal Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 I think she wants YOU to be with other women because SHE wants to be with other men. Just a hunch.
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