cml0421 Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 I'm a college student and in one of my classes I saw this girl and she was absolutely gorgeous. She looked like she was sitting next to one of her friends and another guy. Her and the guy appeared to be just friends. I sort of stalked her after class just to see if she was meeting a boyfriend or something. Just judging her by her looks, I would think she would have one. But I didn't see any guys that she met up with. This doesn't mean she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's all I have to go off of. I have to find a way to at least talk to her. The problem is, I only have two weeks before the end of the semester, and I'm bad at talking to girls as it is. I can be pretty shy around people I don't know. And around girls that I like I'm even worse. Someone help me please! What should I do to at least talk to her?!
jobaba Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 (edited) I'm a college student and in one of my classes I saw this girl and she was absolutely gorgeous. She looked like she was sitting next to one of her friends and another guy. Her and the guy appeared to be just friends. I sort of stalked her after class just to see if she was meeting a boyfriend or something. Just judging her by her looks, I would think she would have one. But I didn't see any guys that she met up with. This doesn't mean she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's all I have to go off of. I have to find a way to at least talk to her. The problem is, I only have two weeks before the end of the semester, and I'm bad at talking to girls as it is. I can be pretty shy around people I don't know. And around girls that I like I'm even worse. Someone help me please! What should I do to at least talk to her?! This is a familiar sounding post. When I was in your situation (and I was when I was your age) and I asked for advice, people told me to go for it and try and talk to her and ask her out. Man, I was so in love with this one girl... I'm not sure why instead they didn't give the advice I'm about to give you. You need to COMPLETELY change your mentality regarding women. Never let yourself get infatuated with women you don't even know. One way ticket to heartbreak and destruction of confidence. Instead, my advice is this... You seem to be a guy who lacks experience with women. Forget that girl. You don't even know her freakin name! You'll meet tons just as pretty in your life. Prettier. Most of them will have personalities that suck donkey. Go talk to an average girl or below average in one of your classes. Go get to know her. Find one you kind of like and try and get with her. After you've done that, the gorgeous girl will seem more like just another woman. Or you could go the hard route and approach that girl. But it sounds to me like you are ill equipped to win her. Honestly, I wish I had me when I was younger. Edited November 29, 2011 by jobaba
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