cml0421 Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 I'm a college student and in one of my classes I saw this girl and she was absolutely gorgeous. She looked like she was sitting next to one of her friends and another guy. Her and the guy appeared to be just friends. I sort of stalked her after class just to see if she was meeting a boyfriend or something. Just judging her by her looks, I would think she would have one. But I didn't see any guys that she met up with. This doesn't mean she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's all I have to go off of. I have to find a way to at least talk to her. The problem is, I only have two weeks before the end of the semester, and I'm bad at talking to girls as it is. I can be pretty shy around people I don't know. And around girls that I like I'm even worse. Someone help me please! What should I do to at least talk to her?!
Heart On Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 (edited) Grab your 'balls' and go for it! Nothing ventured is nothing gained! At worst,you will be rejected,at best,she will consider going out on a first date with you if you play your cards right. It sounds to me like you are just insecure and wondering if she is "too" gorgeous for you.Oddly enough,"hot chicks" can find themselves alone on Friday night too! Just walk up to her and say something like,"Hi,I noticed you the other day and was assuming someone as beautiful as you,must have a boyfriend already. Would I be correct?" Dependant on what she says....take it from there. Either way,it's practice for future interactions with women. I have found that if a man has confidence,and an aire of courage,I will consider him someone worthy of at least talking to,even if he's not the most attractive man I have seen.Not saying you aren't,but obviously,you are questioning your own worth in her eyes. I remember this guy in HS that I was infatuated with.I was too insecure to approach him,and I figured "not in his league". Fast forward 15 years later.....I found out via the grape vine, that HE didn't approach me because he didn't think HE was in my league! WTF! I would have had 100 of his babies! lol Edited November 29, 2011 by Heart On
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