yzyzyz325 Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 Hi all, please read my story below: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t286968/ so, we broke up half a year ago, she (21) never tried to contact me. We had been in NC for 5 months until I texted her on her bday last month, and she replied. I cut the text short, so we didnt talk that much. Now, our best mutual friend (f) invited my ex gf to her bday party. My ex asked if I would come, and said that she didnt want to see me if I still had feelings t her because she didnt want to give me false hope, but she didnt mind of being friends if I got over her. The friend asked if she was seeing anyone, my ex then said yes, she had met someone, but had not met for a while bcoz she was quite busy. I am so pissed off when my friend told me that. I'm not surprised by the fact that she has met someone, but I am shocked by she said she didn't mind of being friends. She tore my life into pieces by dumping me out of the blue, and never tried to contact me ever since the BU. Now she said she didnt mind of being friend, it makes feel that she is the victim of the BU bcoz i hurt her by doing sth evil and made her call it off (which was so not!), and now she is being a big person by forgiving what I have done and give me a chance to be her friend. From what she said, i can see that she doesnt feel guilty of breaking up with me at all, she still only cares abt her own feelings. If she really wants to be friend, at least show some sincerity! Please, any girls' pints of view? Why would she say sth like that!
PoppyLove89 Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 It sounds like she still cares for you as a person who was in her life but she doesn't harbour any romantic feelings since she's seeing some new guy. I for one wouldn't even bother giving her the satisfaction of being friends...she lost you, let her realise it. Move on, cut contact and find someone worth your time who won't treat you this way because you don't deserve it!
Author yzyzyz325 Posted November 30, 2011 Author Posted November 30, 2011 It sounds like she still cares for you as a person who was in her life but she doesn't harbour any romantic feelings since she's seeing some new guy. I for one wouldn't even bother giving her the satisfaction of being friends...she lost you, let her realise it. Move on, cut contact and find someone worth your time who won't treat you this way because you don't deserve it! Thanks poppylove, i dont know from where you think she still cares. Ppl here always say they got mixed and confusing signals from ex. To be honest, i would be so glad to receive those breadcrumbs from my ex, bcoz that at least shows she still cares and she doesnt want me to completely stay out of her life. However, in my case, she said she didn't mind of being friends, which means she doesnt really want to be friends, or she wants me to pursue to be her friend. I dont knw why she is so arrogant. She didnt even think why i would want to b her friend in the first place after all those coldhearted things she did to me. She cant even be civil or friendly after she hurt me so much! Why would a girl say sth like that? Is she really that selfish and cold hearted?
Rorschach64 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 To answer your very last question....yes, very much so.
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