Paper Roses Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 My phone was ringing at 5 am this morning. What's his problem? He never appreciated me and now that I'm gone he can't stop calling me? He broke my heart and I told him so, so he shouldn't be shocked that I've decided to cut him out of my life. I never told him I was through but I honestly don't feel like I owe him anything. It's been almost a month with not a peep from me. If I cave and talk to him, I'm done, he'll be back treating me the same shabby way he did before and I'll be miserable again. I'm still miserable but it's a peaceful "this is right" kind of misery, if that makes any sense. Should I change my number? How would you deal with this? He's getting more aggressive than I thought he would (not as in violence or anything, he's a gentle jerk). I know that he justs wants what he can't have or he wants to keep me as an option if nothing else pans out, but seriously, 5 a.m.??
Author Paper Roses Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 I really must apoligise for being so self absorbed and I've been getting some nice replies that really are helping me so much. Thank you all for listening to my frustration.
mike588 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 My phone was ringing at 5 am this morning. What's his problem? He never appreciated me and now that I'm gone he can't stop calling me? He broke my heart and I told him so, so he shouldn't be shocked that I've decided to cut him out of my life. I never told him I was through but I honestly don't feel like I owe him anything. It's been almost a month with not a peep from me. If I cave and talk to him, I'm done, he'll be back treating me the same shabby way he did before and I'll be miserable again. I'm still miserable but it's a peaceful "this is right" kind of misery, if that makes any sense. Should I change my number? How would you deal with this? He's getting more aggressive than I thought he would (not as in violence or anything, he's a gentle jerk). I know that he justs wants what he can't have or he wants to keep me as an option if nothing else pans out, but seriously, 5 a.m.?? Good job on not caving in. Look into blocking his #, if that doesn't work yea change your #
Author Paper Roses Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Ahhh, why am I such a dizzy broad? I didn't even think to block his number out. I've never used that before. haha, don't I feel silly? I'm on that right now, thank you so much, Mike. I'm tired, stressed and not thinking straight these days. Thank you. I refuse to cave.
mike588 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Ahhh, why am I such a dizzy broad? I didn't even think to block his number out. I've never used that before. haha, don't I feel silly? I'm on that right now, thank you so much, Mike. I'm tired, stressed and not thinking straight these days. Thank you. I refuse to cave. It's hard to think straight when your going thru something like this, believe me I know
ladyravenloft Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 I really must apoligise for being so self absorbed and I've been getting some nice replies that really are helping me so much. Thank you all for listening to my frustration. You are -not- being self absorbed. You're hurting and he's being a total asshat for treating you like this. You are strong, and you will make it. You've got people here that care.
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