Ladies, do you ever have days where you get mad at your boy for the dumbest reasons?

[Onlyjonley]

Who ever said anything about walking all over the other person?

[ShannonMI]

We both make mistakes but she doesn't excuse it because she is a woman and I am a man. She owns up to her mistakes and doesn't walk all over somebody just because they let her. A person who walks on the weak is a bully and I have no desire to be married to be a bully.

No bullies aren't cool. A woman on the rag isn't a bully. Come on.

[Woggle]

No bullies aren't cool. A woman on the rag isn't a bully. Come on.

 

One who uses it to be abusive is one. This sounds just as bad as those men who use that spread the seed crap to justify cheating.

[Onlyjonley]

Who said anything about being abusive?

 

Being overly emotional is considered abusive?

[ShannonMI]

Who ever said anything about walking all over the other person?

Some of the men on this thread are saying a bitchy woman on the rag is grounds for dumping. I asked Wogg what he does if a woman is a bitch to him. Does he give it right back to her or does he allow her to walk all over him? I said if the woman is a bitch all the time and walks all over you that is a bad thing. A woman being bitchy and irritable one or two days out of the month is not the end of the world.

[Woggle]

Who said anything about being abusive?

 

Being overly emotional is considered abusive?

 

Put downs, throwing things and all that is abuse. It sure is considered such when a man does it to a woman.

[ShannonMI]

Who said anything about being abusive?

 

Being overly emotional is considered abusive?

Hahahahaha that's what some men think about women on their periods. So funny. They are abusive. How about man up and tell her to quit being a bitch and walk out of the room?

[Woggle]

Hahahahaha that's what some men think about women on their periods. So funny. They are abusive. How about man up and tell her to quit being a bitch and walk out of the room?

 

Do you really think that would be the end of it? My ex who was decent maybe two days out of the month would follow me around trying to provoke me and when I would drive somewhere would follow me. When her car was in the shop she took a cab once. Not listening to her tirades will get you called insensitive to her emotions.

[ShannonMI]

Put downs, throwing things and all that is abuse. It sure is considered such when a man does it to a woman.

Absolutely it is. If it happens all the time. Also, who said anything about putting a man down or throwing sh*t? I've never done that. I'm just short tempered and bitchy when I'm PMSing. There is no low personal blows or violence.

 

I may say "just leave me the f*ck alone." That's an example of a bitchy pop off. Not "you are a loser and try dodging this vase as I throw it at your head.":p

[ShannonMI]

Do you really think that would be the end of it? My ex who was decent maybe two days out of the month would follow me around trying to provoke me and when I would drive somewhere would follow me. When her car was in the shop she took a cab once. Not listening to her tirades will get you called insensitive to her emotions.

Yeah and isn't she currently in prison? I think she has bigger problems then PMS, honey. Most women ragging it don't do what she did. She sounds like a legit nut case.

[Woggle]

Yeah and isn't she currently in prison? I think she has bigger problems then PMS, honey. Most women ragging it don't do what she did. She sounds like a legit nut case.

 

She is but she is an example of how bad it can get when a man puts up with crap. I tried to be understanding at first until it got worse and worse. My current wife is emotionally stable and knows what my dealbreakers are.

[Onlyjonley]

Put downs, throwing things and all that is abuse. It sure is considered such when a man does it to a woman.

 

And how did this thread turn to that behavior? Because it was definitely never what I meant.

 

I never criticize my boyfriend or verbally abuse him unless you consider "wahhhhh, all you want to do is watch football!" and "hmph, you never want to talk on the phone" to be verbally abusive.

 

We have never even yelled at one another let alone thrown things. Though I'm sure the yelling will come up at some point down the line. We've only been together 7 months.

[dasein]

the same goes for the fella in the other thread when you defended his getting a lapdance in a strip club. but let's see, i bet you have way more understanding for his "hormones" making him crossing the line with the stripper than you have for women here? you're such a hyprocrite and anyone with half a brain can see thru your bs.

 

If you are going to threadstalk my posts get your facts straight.

 

1. In the other thread, I never said that OP's BF was blameless, but did say that what he did doesn't amount to cheating.

2. In the other thread, I never said anything remotely similar to his hormones being an excuse, but did say that he likely got scammed.

 

On second thought, don't stalk my posts at all, I don't need a nutty buddy on here.

[ShannonMI]

She is but she is an example of how bad it can get when a man puts up with crap. I tried to be understanding at first until it got worse and worse. My current wife is emotionally stable and knows what my dealbreakers are.

That woman is a nut. What she did had nothing to do with PMS. She has a severe personality disorder from what it sounds like. It that grounds for dumping? Absolutely. A little PMS is not.

[Onlyjonley]

Do you really think that would be the end of it? My ex who was decent maybe two days out of the month would follow me around trying to provoke me and when I would drive somewhere would follow me. When her car was in the shop she took a cab once. Not listening to her tirades will get you called insensitive to her emotions.

 

Ahhh, this explains it. No wonder. You've had terrible experiences with psychotic bitches.

[ShannonMI]

Ahhh, this explains it. No wonder. You've had terrible experiences with psychotic bitches.

Yes. And her issues are not PMS related. Shes probably got borderline personality disorder or some sh*t. Should he have dumped her? Hell yes.

[Feelsgoodman]

Right, but if you love someone you are going to put up with some bitchy moments.

If a woman can't deal with her period without acting all crazy, she's not someone I would want to date. Maybe it's hard for me to relate to your "condition", as all of the women that I've dated were quite normal when they were menstruating (and no, they weren't 80 years old - they were all in their 20s), but given the choice between a woman who can handle her periods and one who can't, why would I pick the latter?

[ShannonMI]

If you are going to threadstalk my posts get your facts straight.

 

1. In the other thread, I never said that OP's BF was blameless, but did say that what he did doesn't amount to cheating.

2. In the other thread, I never said anything remotely similar to his hormones being an excuse, but did say that he likely got scammed.

 

On second thought, don't stalk my posts at all, I don't need a nutty buddy on here.

I have a nutty buddy on here. He's a legit stalker. He changes his user name everyday after he gets banned. He calls me ugly, a slut and now the new name is a concentration camp survivor. What a nice guy, huh? He follows me around from thread to thread. He's a wacko.

[Woggle]

I can deal with a bad day or two but if uses it as an excuse to dish whatever abuse she wants and I have to put up with it then I am out.

[ShannonMI]

If a woman can't deal with her period without acting all crazy, she's not someone I would want to date. Maybe it's hard for me to relate to your "condition", as all of the women that I've dated were quite normal when they were menstruating (and no, they weren't 80 years old - they were all in their 20s), but given the choice between a woman who can handle her periods and one who can't, why would I pick the latter?

Crazy and bitchy are two different things. Did you not see my example of a bitchy comment I might make while on my period? "Leave me the f*ck alone" is something I would say. Is that crazy? I don't think so.

[dasein]

I have a nutty buddy on here. He's a legit stalker. He changes his user name everyday after he gets banned. He calls me ugly, a slut and now the new name is a concentration camp survivor. What a nice guy, huh? He follows me around from thread to thread. He's a wacko.

 

I know, have seen him. Very sorry you have to put up with that here. Trolling on all internet forums seems to heat up around the holidays when bored kids are on break from school. That could of course be some poster who recently got banned also.

 

I'm not accusing negative nancy of doing what you describe, but when posters try to "catch" other posters in an inconsistency cross threads, they at least need to get their facts straight.

[Onlyjonley]

Crazy and bitchy are two different things. Did you not see my example of a bitchy comment I might make while on my period? "Leave me the f*ck alone" is something I would say. Is that crazy? I don't think so.

 

Bitter dudes who have never touched boobs and live in their mom's basement. Be gentle with them.

[ShannonMI]

I know, have seen him. Very sorry you have to put up with that here. Trolling on all internet forums seems to heat up around the holidays when bored kids are on break from school. That could of course be some poster who recently got banned also.

 

I'm not accusing negative nancy of doing what you describe, but when posters try to "catch" other posters in an inconsistency cross threads, they at least need to get their facts straight.

You must have pissed her off with something you said. Happens a lot on here unfortunately. People get caught up in different things and bring it into other topics that have nothing to do with what is being discussed. Annoying to say the least.

[Feelsgoodman]

Crazy and bitchy are two different things. Did you not see my example of a bitchy comment I might make while on my period? "Leave me the f*ck alone" is something I would say. Is that crazy? I don't think so.

Yeah, it's pretty crazy to lash out at someone like that for no reason. If a woman said that to me, that would be pretty much the end of our relationship. I have a zero tolerance policy towards such blatant disrespect.

 

Look, when it comes to women, my personal motto is to stay away from the crazies. And I don't really care if it's hormones, the lunar cycle or indigestion that's causing they to behave that way. In my book, crazy is crazy.

[ShannonMI]

Bitter dudes who have never touched boobs and live in their mom's basement. Be gentle with them.

Pretty much. Or dudes that have psycho exes and think most women are like that. Not the case at all.