Ladies, do you ever have days where you get mad at your boy for the dumbest reasons?

[azsinglegal]

They are both behaviors that YOU can control.

 

Again, you do it because you think you can get away with it.

 

RF

 

I agree, which was my original post. I work very hard NOT to ever be a bitch.

 

I do get crabby from time to time, but I recognize it and put my ass in check. Sure, when I was younger I'd use the PMS excuse in order to be overly emotional and lash out at anyone. I'd cause drama and start fights over nothing.

 

Now...I recognize those behaviors and change my attitude immediately.

 

I never let it get out of hand tho...and I NEVER blame it on my period.

 

Of course...I'm going thru menopause now and my Dr. just put me on hormones so that might be part of why I'm not overly emotional/hormonal and drama queen like other women.

[Woggle]

I will never put up with certain things anymore yet I am not alone. I set my standards high and I met somebody that lived up to them.

[Onlyjonley]

I will never put up with certain things anymore yet I am not alone. I set my standards high and I met somebody that lived up to them.

 

I'm sure your robot of a significant other is just a bundle of fun.

[Woggle]

I'm sure your robot of a significant other is just a bundle of fun.

 

She is not a robot but she is an adult who takes reponsibility for her actions. She does not do anything she would not put up with coming from me.

 

I also decided that I would rather live a drama free life single than a drama filled life with a woman and she knows that.

[dasein]

You dudes who say you wouldn't put up with any kind of moodiness/bitchiness in a relationship are in for a rude awakening. Either that or you're going to be alone forever.

 

Sorry but "blame it on crazy hormones" looks like "beyond my control" to me as men have heard that exact same thing for the exact same reason in the past. Perhaps you meant it differently.

 

I just left a LTR in July, and moodiness bitchiness were never a problem because it is clear from the get-go that I am not a man who will put up with it. People are human, people get moody. People should own their behavior, admit their mistakes and correct them, and PMS is no excuse for bad behavior.

[dasein]

I will never put up with certain things anymore yet I am not alone. I set my standards high and I met somebody that lived up to them.

 

I'm sure your robot of a significant other is just a bundle of fun.

 

OP are your overreactions to people's posts here due simply to "crazy hormones" also? If so, perhaps you should see a doctor for hormone therapy.

[Onlyjonley]

You're confusing overreaction with harmless online bantering.

[Feelsgoodman]

I'm sure your robot of a significant other is just a bundle of fun.

I'm sure she's a lot more fun than a psychotic biotch overdosing on "crazy hormones".

[Feelsgoodman]

You dudes who say you wouldn't put up with any kind of moodiness/bitchiness in a relationship are in for a rude awakening. Either that or you're going to be alone forever.

Nah. I've been in relationships with women that are perfectly normal and non-crazy. Thanks for your concern though.

[Onlyjonley]

I'm sure she's a lot more fun than a psychotic biotch overdosing on "crazy hormones".

 

Yes, my boyfriend just can't handle my overly emotional moods every 3 months. It's just out of control.

[Woggle]

I'm sure she's a lot more fun than a psychotic biotch overdosing on "crazy hormones".

 

She sure is. Not a single ruined vacation yet.

[OnyxSnowfall]

 

It's not an "excuse", but hormones are actually........... real. They influence more than just moods --- for males and females (a couple examples: the physiological health of a person, love and or attraction).

 

In my experience, most men have found my (otherwise unidentifiable) moments of feisty ways "cute" and for several, it's been enticing Maybe it helps that I'm typically more introverted... or, maybe some people do just find some wild and sass inherently attractive

[KindMan]

I think OP is a real bitch who hates Men and has cold sores.

[OnyxSnowfall]

Yes, my boyfriend just can't handle my overly emotional moods every 3 months. It's just out of control.

 

Seriously, that often? Gawd, your poor guy. How does he put up with it???!

[azsinglegal]

Yes, my boyfriend just can't handle my overly emotional moods every 3 months. It's just out of control.

 

Whoa...that seems excessive. Have you talked to your doctor about this?

[Negative Nancy]

There's nothing wrong with being moody from time to time. What's wrong is not owning it and taking responsibility for it, trying to shift the blame to hormones, PMS. Adults aren't like boats floating without a rudder on uncontrollable seas of emotions. Children are. The choice of whether to behave like an adult or a child is up to you OP.

 

the same goes for the fella in the other thread when you defended his getting a lapdance in a strip club. but let's see, i bet you have way more understanding for his "hormones" making him crossing the line with the stripper than you have for women here? you're such a hyprocrite and anyone with half a brain can see thru your bs.

[Woggle]

the same goes for the fella in the other thread when you defended his getting a lapdance in a strip club. but let's see, i bet you have way more understanding for his "hormones" making him crossing the line with the stripper than you have for women here? you're such a hyprocrite and anyone with half a brain can see thru your bs.

 

I condemned that as well. I am consistent in my views. I don't get lapdances and my wife gives me a drama free vacation.

[ShannonMI]

Certain types of men (i.e. desperate, low self-esteem) probably do. Higher quality men would not. In order to get away with being a bitch with high quality people, you need to have a high stature in life.

Hahahahaha so men who deal with a PMSing bitch have low self esteems and are desperate? That's a ridiculous argument. Perhaps they are just more tolerant then other men. Everyone has bad days and bitchy moments. You are going to dump someone over that?

 

My previous boyfriends did not have low self esteems and they were not desperate. They dealt with my bitchiness by removing themselves from my presence. I pop off, they leave the room to give me my space to cool down. And this bitchiness doesn't last the whole 7 days. It's usually a few days before the period starts and one or two days of the actually period. Sometimes there is no bitchiness at all. It depends on the month.

 

I guess I can only be a bitch if I'm famous you're saying? So silly:laugh:

[Woggle]

Some men just put up with anything while other men have respect for themselves.

[ShannonMI]

Some men just put up with anything while other men have respect for themselves.

Right, but if you love someone you are going to put up with some bitchy moments. If the girl is a bitch all the time, that is one thing. One or two days out of the month isn't grounds to dump someone. And good luck finding a woman who isn't a bitch once in awhile. Maybe if you dated an 80 year old woman you'd be safe. She's over her period and menopause.

[KindMan]

Hahahahaha so men who deal with a PMSing bitch have low self esteems and are desperate? That's a ridiculous argument. Perhaps they are just more tolerant then other men. Everyone has bad days and bitchy moments. You are going to dump someone over that?

 

My previous boyfriends did not have low self esteems and they were not desperate. They dealt with my bitchiness by removing themselves from my presence. I pop off, they leave the room to give me my space to cool down. And this bitchiness doesn't last the whole 7 days. It's usually a few days before the period starts and one or two days of the actually period. Sometimes there is no bitchiness at all. It depends on the month.

 

I guess I can only be a bitch if I'm famous you're saying? So silly:laugh:

 

OMG! bring back the dog picture, this one is even more ugly. You look like a concentration camp survivor....damn you be one ugly broad...you dumb too....nice try telling us you had "boyfriends"....imaginary boyfriends and your dog don't count sister.

[ShannonMI]

OMG! bring back the dog picture, this one is even more ugly. You look like a concentration camp survivor....damn you be one ugly broad...you dumb too....nice try telling us you had "boyfriends"....imaginary boyfriends and your dog don't count sister.

Hahahahaha awww thanks. You are so sweet, stalker. You see my name and you have to post. I know you have the hots for me or you wouldn't feel the need to keep harassing me.

[Woggle]

Right, but if you love someone you are going to put up with some bitchy moments. If the girl is a bitch all the time, that is one thing. One or two days out of the month isn't grounds to dump someone. And good luck finding a woman who isn't a bitch once in awhile. Maybe if you dated an 80 year old woman you'd be safe. She's over her period and menopause.

 

Let a few days like that slide and it quickly turns into a week and then two weeks then another week and before you know you two are at each other's throats most of the time.

[ShannonMI]

Let a few days like that slide and it quickly turns into a week and then two weeks then another week and before you know you two are at each other's throats most of the time.

When a woman is bitchy to you what do you do? Do you give it right back to her or do you apologize like a pussy and let her walk all over you? Maybe that's the problem. You're married. Your wife NEVER has bitchy days? I find that hard to believe. Do you yourself NEVER have a bad day where you are irritable? You must be the perfect couple if you don't.

[Woggle]

When a woman is bitchy to you what do you do? Do you give it right back to her or do you apologize like a pussy and let her walk all over you? Maybe that's the problem. You're married. Your wife NEVER has bitchy days? I find that hard to believe. Do you yourself NEVER have a bad day where you are irritable? You must be the perfect couple if you don't.

 

We both make mistakes but she doesn't excuse it because she is a woman and I am a man. She owns up to her mistakes and doesn't walk all over somebody just because they let her. A person who walks on the weak is a bully and I have no desire to be married to be a bully.