Ladies, do you ever have days where you get mad at your boy for the dumbest reasons?

[carhill]

I remember when my exW started menopause and was, amongst other things, making blatantly racist remarks in the supermarket about the farmworkers shopping there. WTF am I supposed to do about that? The few times I called her out on that behavior she turned on me. Man what I'd have given for some cold hard steel in my hand. Self-defense

 

Once in awhile, with an appropriate apology, is fine. None of us is perfect.

[Feelsgoodman]

Hahahaha it's funny you say that. I am bitchy to my boss and she knows when I have my period. Just like I know when she has hers. I'm short tempered and just get irritated easily. She acts the same way.

 

You are a man. You don't understand the complicated workings of a woman and her hormones. Please don't try to. Go to the gym and work out or something.

None of my female employees are bitchy to me. Maybe they don't menstruate But more likely, they just want to keep their jobs.

 

Most of the girls I've dated weren't bitchy to me either (the ones who were, I always parted ways with quickly). I guess they did a pretty good job of hiding their "complicated workings"

[OnyxSnowfall]

Kudos to the women charged with hormones ---

 

at least most of us are awesome in bed

[ShannonMI]

I remember when my exW started menopause and was, amongst other things, making blatantly racist remarks in the supermarket about the farmworkers shopping there. WTF am I supposed to do about that? The few times I called her out on that behavior she turned on me. Man what I'd have given for some cold hard steel in my hand. Self-defense

 

Once in awhile, with an appropriate apology, is fine. None of us is perfect.

Hahahaha like she had Turrets or something? That's too funny.:lmao:

[OnyxSnowfall]

None of my female employees are bitchy to me. Maybe they don't menstruate But more likely, they just want to keep their jobs.

 

Most of the girls I've dated weren't bitchy to me either (the ones who were, I always parted ways with quickly). I guess they did a pretty good job of hiding their "complicated workings"

 

A lot of women don't suffer from extreme PMS nor menstrual symptoms --- while mild irritability is a common symptom (and often due to physical symptoms, like cramping, bloating, head aches etc), extreme irritability is not.

 

There are still quite a few women who suffer from anger and extreme mood shifts etc though.

[ShannonMI]

None of my female employees are bitchy to me. Maybe they don't menstruate But more likely, they just want to keep their jobs.

 

Most of the girls I've dated weren't bitchy to me either (the ones who were, I always parted ways with quickly). I guess they did a pretty good job of hiding their "complicated workings"

Maybe they take birth control. I heard that helps. Glad you haven't had ANY bad experiences with hormonal women. You are very lucky.

[ShannonMI]

Kudos to the women charged with hormones ---

 

at least most of us are awesome in bed

Yes we are. And speaking of that, most of us want a good pummeling when we are on our periods. Am I right ladies? A lot of you men don't ride the red tide. Maybe if you did, we wouldn't be such bitches:p:p

[ShannonMI]

A lot of women don't suffer from extreme PMS nor menstrual symptoms --- while mild irritability is a common symptom (and often due to physical symptoms, like cramping, bloating, head aches etc), extreme irritability is not.

 

There are still quite a few women who suffer from anger and extreme mood shifts etc though.

Yep. There are times I have my period and I'm as cool as a cucumber. Then there are other times I'm a raging bitch. I've never been violent though.

[OnyxSnowfall]

Yes we are. And speaking of that, most of us want a good pummeling when we are on our periods. Am I right ladies? A lot of you men don't ride the red tide. Maybe if you did, we wouldn't be such bitches:p:p

 

You are soooooooooooo right

 

I get way hornier right before I bleed and during it.

My recent ex would pummel me regardless - some of the best orgasms I've had --- and it did calm me (for a little while, 'til I needed it again lol)

[Feelsgoodman]

Maybe they take birth control. I heard that helps. Glad you haven't had ANY bad experiences with hormonal women. You are very lucky.

I'll take your word for it

[ShannonMI]

You are soooooooooooo right

 

I get way hornier right before I bleed and during it.

My recent ex would pummel me regardless - some of the best orgasms I've had --- and it did calm me (for a little while, 'til I needed it again lol)

Hell yeah I'm right!!! The hormones make us bitchy, but they make us want to rut like wild boars too hahahahahahahaha:lmao: I've had a few guys that have been ok with sex during my period. They are good boys for having mercy enough to just do it.

[Casablanca]

I think it is like this way for a lot of women, hell men are lying saying if it never happens to them. I remember one time getting mad, my gf was trying to help me with making dinner and for what ever reason I took at is her acting like I couldnt do it and got mad and told her to get out of the kitchen. I apologized later and any good woman will apologize too.

[refurb]

And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.

 

You do it because you feel you can get away with it.

 

Whatever your opinion of Dr. Laura is, I always remembered this conversation she had with a caller:

 

DL: Why do you hit your wife?

Caller: I just get so frustrated with her sometimes, I just can't control myself.

DL: Really? So if you're having a bad day and a cop pulls you over, do you start beating him?

Caller: No.

DL: Exactly. Somehow you seem to find the self-control in that situation!

 

RF

[ShannonMI]

I think it is like this way for a lot of women, hell men are lying saying if it never happens to them. I remember one time getting mad, my gf was trying to help me with making dinner and for what ever reason I took at is her acting like I couldnt do it and got mad and told her to get out of the kitchen. I apologized later and any good woman will apologize too.

Yes I always apologize after being a raging bitch. Usually as I'm bawling my eyes out. Hahahahahaha yes boys, the hormones make us cry too:p

[ShannonMI]

You do it because you feel you can get away with it.

 

Whatever your opinion of Dr. Laura is, I always remembered this conversation she had with a caller:

 

DL: Why do you hit your wife?

Caller: I just get so frustrated with her sometimes, I just can't control myself.

DL: Really? So if you're having a bad day and a cop pulls you over, do you start beating him?

Caller: No.

DL: Exactly. Somehow you seem to find the self-control in that situation!

 

RF

How can any of you compare physical violence with having a bitchy attitude? Come on. It's totally different. Yes it's about self control, but a bitchy 'tude is nothing compared to punching someone in the face.

[refurb]

No, that's what young girls do. Women take responsibility for their actions, recognize it and don't repeat that same behavior.

 

Cowgirl up. Blaming PMS is what makes the rest of us rational women look bad. YOU are the reason men think women are hormonal and irrational.

 

 

PLEASE MARRY ME!!!

 

RF

[refurb]

How can any of you compare physical violence with having a bitchy attitude? Come on. It's totally different. Yes it's about self control, but a bitchy 'tude is nothing compared to punching someone in the face.

 

They are both behaviors that YOU can control.

 

Again, you do it because you think you can get away with it.

 

RF

[ShannonMI]

They are both behaviors that YOU can control.

 

Again, you do it because you think you can get away with it.

 

RF

Yes perhaps. But getting away with being bitchy is different then trying to get away with punching a wall or someone's face. So if being bitchy was frowned upon like violence is, then I'm sure we would try to rein it in a little more.

[Casablanca]

They are both behaviors that YOU can control.

 

Again, you do it because you think you can get away with it.

 

RF

It is hard to say; I've never hurt a girl physically, but there was one time where I was trying to study for a test that I would be taking in about an hour and my gf at the time would NOT STOP PESTERING ME. I told her to stop and leave me alone. Well she didnt and I did this playful lite bitch slap on her cheek, didnt hurt her, I think it kind of shocked her. I told her I was leaving to study in the quiet classroom before the test. I apologized after the test, she wasnt mad, she understood and knew it wasnt meant to hurt, which it didnt...she knew my intent was to let her know how awful she was acting at the moment and not trying to show show some physical domination. Only time I've ever "hit" a woman.

 

I knew what I was doing. But Ive never had the urge to actually hurt someone, and I would say there is a huge difference between telling someone off and hurting them...two different levels of self control and awareness are needed (or not needed depending on your perspective)

[samsungxoxo]

No if I were to vent out, it's generally for a good reason esp. if it's something that's been talked about or I had to put up with for a long time until I explode.

[Feelsgoodman]

How can any of you compare physical violence with having a bitchy attitude? Come on. It's totally different. Yes it's about self control, but a bitchy 'tude is nothing compared to punching someone in the face.

Not really different for the purposes of this discussion. Both can be controlled, if desired.

[Feelsgoodman]

Yes perhaps. But getting away with being bitchy is different then trying to get away with punching a wall or someone's face. So if being bitchy was frowned upon like violence is, then I'm sure we would try to rein it in a little more.

Exactly. You act like a bitch because the men you date let you get away with it.

[ShannonMI]

Not really different for the purposes of this discussion. Both can be controlled, if desired.

Right, but a bitchy attitude is not that big of a deal. Violence is. So let us women vent a little. If we start swinging, then that's a big problem. A little menstrual bitchiness is fine. Most of us apologize afterward too. At least I do.

[Feelsgoodman]

Right, but a bitchy attitude is not that big of a deal.

Really? To me, that would be a pretty big deal.

[carhill]

Not really different for the purposes of this discussion. Both can be controlled, if desired.

Yep, my mom raised a real PITA teenager (me) while going through menopause and I never once saw her pop off at me or my dad. There was a lot of firewood chopped in the back yard, however How do I remember this so well? I saw her with all the filters removed when she was demented. It was brutal. Simple as that.