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Ladies, do you ever have days where you get mad at your boy for the dumbest reasons?

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And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.

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And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.

 

Honestly I've been the guy in this scenario more than once. I've found it usually means she doesn't love you.

 

Today I simply don't tolerate this kind of emotionally abusive behavior.

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A woman does this too many times and I am out of there.

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PureLove, upon reading some of your previous posts ... you're obviously a troll. I shall not bite.

 

Untouchable, I love my boyfriend more than anything. We have a great relationship and rarely have disagreements. But every once in awhile, I will have one of these days.

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Untouchable, I love my boyfriend more than anything. We have a great relationship and rarely have disagreements. But every once in awhile, I will have one of these days.

 

Do you just think to yourself that he can't do anything right... or do you actually begin to verbalize that?

 

There are simply some things you can't unsay. Every time this happens... it's going to destroy a little bit of the love until eventually there is nothing left.

 

I'm telling you this because I have experience with it. If he 'can't do anything right', that means you are not respecting him. Respect is a very important component of love.

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And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.

If the boy does not kick you to the curb for being a such a b*tch, he probably deserves it.

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And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.

 

It may well be your hormones making you more irritable/snappy/tearful. However that does not mean that you can just get away with whatever you do. Otherwise it is just a cop out and does not do any favours for the absolute tiny minority of women who do have an incredibly bad time due to their period.

 

You still have to accept responsibility for your actions and the fall-out from them. You still have to apologise and work on not repeating such behaviours.

 

And if you are saying this when it is not your period.... :mad:

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Whoa whoa whoa .. when did this turn into emotional abuse? It's nothing like that. I'm talking more like getting upset about something he says that normally wouldn't upset me. Or getting irritated that he's not paying enough attention to me when we're together ...when in all actuality, he isn't acting any different than he normally is.

 

I'm talking about lame, insignificant things like that. That's why I blamed it on hormones. I've already apologized to him more than once and plan on baking him some cookies to makeup for being an emotional biotch.

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I'm talking about lame, insignificant things like that. That's why I blamed it on hormones. I've already apologized to him more than once and plan on baking him some cookies to makeup for being an emotional biotch.

What do you mean, "blame it on the hormones"? How do you know that your behaviour is caused by hormonal changes? What are you, a doctor?

 

What if the guy beat you up one night and later said "oops, I blame it on the alcohol!" Would that be acceptable!?

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That's what women do. Blame it on PMS.

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Whoa whoa whoa .. when did this turn into emotional abuse? It's nothing like that. I'm talking more like getting upset about something he says that normally wouldn't upset me. Or getting irritated that he's not paying enough attention to me when we're together ...when in all actuality, he isn't acting any different than he normally is.

I'm talking about lame, insignificant things like that. That's why I blamed it on hormones. I've already apologized to him more than once and plan on baking him some cookies to makeup for being an emotional biotch.

 

Ah... that sounds much better than your original statement. Yeah I think most women go through that kind of thing when the hormonal rollercoaster hits a specific point.

 

If you are picking fights or verbally criticizing things... that is a different story.

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That's what women do. Blame it on PMS.

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No, that's what young girls do. Women take responsibility for their actions, recognize it and don't repeat that same behavior.

 

Cowgirl up. Blaming PMS is what makes the rest of us rational women look bad. YOU are the reason men think women are hormonal and irrational. :rolleyes:

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OP does not seem to like having sex with her Man. No other reason to gloss over my idea, on how she can make it up for being such a bitch

 

I liked your idea. Thanks for the BJ tips. :laugh:

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And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.

Three words: On The Rag:laugh:

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That's because 99% of women are hormonal and irrational at some point or another. It's how we're wired. Those who deny such behavior at some point are delusional.

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That's because 99% of women are hormonal and irrational at some point or another. It's how we're wired. Those who deny such behavior at some point are delusional.

Yes. I can attest to this. When I'm menstrual, I'm a bitch. Plain and simple. I pick fights and I get pissed over the dumbest things. All the boyfriends I've had know when I'm on the rag or about to get it. Like my last two guys I was with would be like "Shannon, you're gonna get your period in a few days" and the bastards were right!! I'm a totally different person. It's crazy how hormones affect you.

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Happens all the time, except I get cranky and irritable too. In fact it's a common theme among us that I'm always grumpy and angry. So we both just ignore it. Seems to work well :)

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That's because 99% of women are hormonal and irrational at some point or another. It's how we're wired. Those who deny such behavior at some point are delusional.

That's like saying that 99% of men get drunk and beat up their wives at some point or another. That's just how we are wired...

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No, that's what young girls do. Women take responsibility for their actions, recognize it and don't repeat that same behavior.

 

Cowgirl up. Blaming PMS is what makes the rest of us rational women look bad. YOU are the reason men think women are hormonal and irrational. :rolleyes:

 

Agreed. Hormones do not give you a green light to be a b*tch. I know I can get emotional at that time but that is not my H's fault. I accept responsibility and work on controlling my moods.

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Yes. I can attest to this. When I'm menstrual, I'm a bitch. Plain and simple. I pick fights and I get pissed over the dumbest things. All the boyfriends I've had know when I'm on the rag or about to get it. Like my last two guys I was with would be like "Shannon, you're gonna get your period in a few days" and the bastards were right!! I'm a totally different person. It's crazy how hormones affect you.

Men have hormones too you know. Sometimes, after a good workout, I can feel testosterone rushing through my veins...it makes me want to punch a hole in a wall or something. So if my girlfriend started acting bitchy to me at that moment, would I have a valid excuse for turning her into a punching bag?

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And then you realize later how ridiculous you acted? I had one of those days yesterday... and today, I feel terrible about it. The poor guy couldn't do anything right in my eyes. I'll blame it on crazy hormones.
This morning, my husband got mad at me for something he misunderstood. It's taken him almost 8 hours to apologize for being silly. Do you suppose it's hormonal? :p
ShannonMI Established Member

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Men have hormones too you know. Sometimes, after a good workout, I can feel testosterone rushing through my veins...it makes me want to punch a hole in a wall or something. So if my girlfriend started acting bitchy to me at that moment, would I have a valid excuse for turning her into a punching bag?

Yeah yeah yeah. Well being bitchy because of hormones is one thing, punching someone because of hormones is something completely different. I don't punch anyone when I'm on the rag. I FEEL like I could punch someone, but I don't. That's the difference. Self control.

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This morning, my husband got mad at me for something he misunderstood. It's taken him almost 8 hours to apologize for being silly. Do you suppose it's hormonal? :p

Yeah tell him to pull out his tampon and say he's sorry.:laugh:

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Yeah yeah yeah. Well being bitchy because of hormones is one thing, punching someone because of hormones is something completely different. I don't punch anyone when I'm on the rag. I FEEL like I could punch someone, but I don't. That's the difference. Self control.

If you can control your hormones-related violent impulses, then surely you can also control your hormones-related general bitchiness. Tell me, do you act like a bitch to your boss at work when you are having a period? Or do you somehow manage to magically reign in your inner b*tch if you know that you won't get away with a "hormonal outburst"?

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If you can control your hormones-related violent impulses, then surely you can also control your hormones-related general bitchiness. Tell me, do you act like a bitch to your boss at work when you are having a period? Or do you somehow manage to magically reign in your inner b*tch if you know that you won't get away with a "hormonal outburst"?

Hahahaha it's funny you say that. I am bitchy to my boss and she knows when I have my period. Just like I know when she has hers. I'm short tempered and just get irritated easily. She acts the same way.

 

You are a man. You don't understand the complicated workings of a woman and her hormones. Please don't try to. Go to the gym and work out or something.;)

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