Celestine Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 I should be doing that right now. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Anyways, at a party last Thursday he kissed a friend of his while I was standing right there watching them. I feel that action was absolutely respectless, we didn't have any type of agreement or relationship, so maybe I shouldn't be angry with him. But I am and I think it speaks volumes about what kind of person he is. I'm kind of disappointed with myself because I would have never thought that of him. We've talked about it, he apologized, he said he didn't think about what he was doing, he said it wouldn't happen again and so on. He kept saying he hopes I'll forgive him at one point. We decided that some time away from one another would be best. He asked if he could call me if he wants to see me. I said he should if he feels like it and that I could still decide to not answer. I'm still secretly hoping he's going to call. Why is walking away so difficult even if it's the best thing to do?
Cosmo Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 (edited) kissing someone else in front of you... and then you accept his fake apology ? i bet this guy did it on purpose, he knows exactly what he did and how you would react, he's definitly not a beginner. He has done it with other girls, you're just the next easy chick on his list; at least be careful to not catch some disease. EDIT: i saw you said you've been "seeing" so not dating ? if yes then forget what i said. Edited November 29, 2011 by Cosmo spelling
insertnamehere Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 He's applying the old principle: "It's better to beg forgiveness than to ask permission." There's a corollary to that: If you want forgiveness, find Christ, because I'm leaving, mother****er. He's doing it because he gets away with it. And nothing is going to stop him, because he;s gotten away with it forever. I guarantee, any man that's good at apologizing has apologized too many times before. You're not the first and you won't be the last.
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