AlisaMarie Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 And I'm getting very weak. This is the longest nc ever and I suppose I have expected to hear from him. As much crap that he put me though I still can't stop thinking of him constantly. In fact it's getting harder not easier. I know any contact made on my end would be a mistake... But I feel like I can't help myself. Friends... Talk me out of this !!!
wilsonx Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Alisa I feel your pain darling... I've saw another breadcrumb tonight from my ex... 3 times this month... Keep chugging along... We can chug along together Chooo Chooo!
Author AlisaMarie Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Alisa I feel your pain darling... I've saw another breadcrumb tonight from my ex... 3 times this month... Keep chugging along... We can chug along together Chooo Chooo! Aww Wilson you are usually pretty stern with your advice!!! I'm glad to see the sensitive side. Sadly... I want some breadcrumbs right now... So pitiful!
ThinkPink218 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 (edited) Stay strong Alisa! I know exactly how you feel. It's been 4 going on 5 weeks since I've last spoken to my ex as well and normally he would have tried to initiate contact in some type of way by now, but he hasn't. I know it's best that we don't speak, but it kinda hurts a little that he hasn't even tried to see how I'm doing or what I'm up to (although like I said that would not be good). It's like I just fell off the face of the earth. Be strong though!! Remind yourself of why your going NC and how it will help you in the long run. When I do think of my ex, i still get a little angry but more so reminisce on the good memories and hope to one day get that again, just not with him. Stay strong, don't contact him, you can do it!!! Edited November 28, 2011 by ThinkPink218
Author AlisaMarie Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Alisa I feel your pain darling... I've saw another breadcrumb tonight from my ex... 3 times this month... Keep chugging along... We can chug along together Chooo Chooo! Stay strong Alisa! I know exactly how you feel. It's been 4 going on 5 weeks since I've last spoken to my ex as well and normally he would have tried to initiate contact in some type of way by now, but he hasn't. I know it's best that we don't speak, but it kinda hurts a little that he hasn't even tried to see how I'm doing or what I'm up to (although like I said that would not be good). It's like I just fell off the face of the earth. Be strong though!! Remind yourself of why your going NC and how it will help you in the long run. When I do think of my ex, i still get a little angry but more so reminisce on the good memories and hope to one day get that again, just not with him. Stay strong, don't contact him, you can do it!!! Thanks pink!!! My story sucks and we've been on and off for so long. For the past year another girl has been in the picture and they are together now. She's less than a desirable catch but oh well. His pattern is to run to her confessing his love then after a couple weeks come back to me for a longer period of time. I promised myself that this time I would end the triangle. Maybe he's happy with her now. I gave him perfectness... Nothing less. I just wish I would have stayed away the first time he left me in July 2010... I'd be long over him.
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