Wolf18 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 So on my campus when I was walking a few weeks ago some girl with guitar looks at me and says "HEY DO YOU LIKE 60'S MUSIC" My response: "Sure, but I must say Wagner's latter years such as Tristan and Isolde were weaker and less passionate than the Ring of Nibelung or Valkyrie" Her response: "NO I MEAN LIKE THE BEATLES" "Oh! I thought you were talking about the 1860's. Nah I hate the Beatles." (went over her head completely) "Oh Ok, I like your mutton chops! You look like Charles Darwin!" *continue to talk, throw her a few wise cracks* then suddeny some other dude came over and she shifted all his attention to him. I took that as a cue to leave. Then the next day I'm walking and the same girl looks at me and says "Hey don't I know you from somewhere!" . I said "No", she said "yes, from my acting class!" I don't take any acting classes, cracked a few one liners and left for class. Then like a week ago I am coming out of the cafeteria, same girl "Hey where do I know you from! ". I said "well we see eachother all the time", she says "ok, well my name is Alexa, nice to meet you" I said "hi im wolf18 nice to meet you" and I went in and kissed her on the cheek. She kind of made a weird face and it got awkward so I left. The guy I was with though said "man you should hit that!". She's probably long forgotten me by now, but it would be interesting to know if she actually liked me or if she is just one of those people who likes to talk to everyone, I just can't tell the difference anymore. Judging from these experiences, do you think she was interested or was I just imagining it?
jobaba Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 I had a semi similar experience when I was in college. An girl who was in one of my classes came up to me and asked me if she knew me from another class. I had never seen her before in my life. I told her no in kind of a whatever, confused kind of way. The very next class she came up and started asking me if I was a ______ major (I forget the exact one). I had never even taken a ______ class. I gave her another casual look and just said no. Another girl who was sitting next to me for both exchanges looked at me and gave me this smile like, "She's hitting on you dude." I can't really remember what my attitude was back then. It was a long time ago. But it was somewhere in between: eh, she's nothing great ... and too wussy to make friendly chit chat and see where it goes. Well, many years later, I don't even need to tell you what I would do differently in that situation. Might have she been just being friendly. Maybe. But many years of life have showed me that possible chances like that for me are rare. Since you're one of the guys one here that seem to have a tougher time meeting women (just from your posts, I don't know your real life or mean that in a bad way), I would take that shot. Also, you shouldn't have kissed her. Too intimate for a relative stranger.
Author Wolf18 Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Yep, if I see her again I think I'm going to ask her for her number and not care about the outcome. Also, you shouldn't have kissed her. Too intimate for a relative stranger.[/Quote] I suppose, but I think shaking hands with women is plain ridiculous. Someone who doesn't share that with me isn't someone I'm interested in to be quite honest.
ScienceGal Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 No kiss or handshake during an initial meeting. Just a smile and a "see you later". It seems to me that she wanted to talk to you and was being a little dishonest about not remembering where she knew you from (supported by the fact that she said it more than once...) I certainly wouldn't forget someone that I thought resembled Charles Darwin! Good luck in getting her number. I thought your jokes were funny.
Cracker Jack Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Sounds like she was interested to me. Hopefully she'll give you her # next time.
dasein Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 That type, I wouldn't ask for the number, just say "Hey let's go do something, I'm bored." Have some sort of plan to kill an hour or two for if she says "do what?" That type tends to get flakey real fast when presented with simple binary choices such as "what is your phone number?" She is obviously interested based on what you type.
futuregopher Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Wow Wolf18. This girl is sending you IOI's (indicators of interest) through the roof!!! No offense but through reading your posts you seem like a "bitter" type of guy but I think; NO, I KNOW this girl is into you. She's given you many IOI's and she is waiting on you to act upon them. Next time she "accidentally" runs into you, do what you've been doing but throw in a false time constraint at the beginning. You could say "I'm on the way to class but I have a few moments to chat, etc". Then do what you've been doing with the teases, etc and say something like "I've got to go to class but I would like to keep in touch. Do you think I could have your number?" You're in NYC right? I remember your commenting on my "Dating in NYC" thread a while back ago so that's where I got my impressions of you from. Anyways, you're still on campus which is good for meeting tons of people. This gives me hope that NYC women aren't bad as you make them out to be. Good luck!!
Author Wolf18 Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 My first instinct is to think she's into me, but this girls pretty good looking and ive seen her from a distance with a bunch of guys. I have a hard time thinking she doesnt have a boyfriend or a billion orbiters. The biggest issue I have with this broad is she grabs my attention, then quickly loses interest. I don't know if she authentically feels that way or its some kind of baby game.
jobaba Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 My first instinct is to think she's into me, but this girls pretty good looking and ive seen her from a distance with a bunch of guys. I have a hard time thinking she doesnt have a boyfriend or a billion orbiters. The biggest issue I have with this broad is she grabs my attention, then quickly loses interest. I don't know if she authentically feels that way or its some kind of baby game. It doesn't matter unless you think she's truly out of your league. You have nothing invested in her at this point so the rejection shouldn't hurt too much.
Author Wolf18 Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Oh definitely jobaba, I'm predicting a flakey phone number and a girl i have nothing in common with, but there's always a chance I suppose.
ShannonMI Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 So on my campus when I was walking a few weeks ago some girl with guitar looks at me and says "HEY DO YOU LIKE 60'S MUSIC" My response: "Sure, but I must say Wagner's latter years such as Tristan and Isolde were weaker and less passionate than the Ring of Nibelung or Valkyrie" Her response: "NO I MEAN LIKE THE BEATLES" "Oh! I thought you were talking about the 1860's. Nah I hate the Beatles." (went over her head completely) "Oh Ok, I like your mutton chops! You look like Charles Darwin!" *continue to talk, throw her a few wise cracks* then suddeny some other dude came over and she shifted all his attention to him. I took that as a cue to leave. Then the next day I'm walking and the same girl looks at me and says "Hey don't I know you from somewhere!" . I said "No", she said "yes, from my acting class!" I don't take any acting classes, cracked a few one liners and left for class. Then like a week ago I am coming out of the cafeteria, same girl "Hey where do I know you from! ". I said "well we see eachother all the time", she says "ok, well my name is Alexa, nice to meet you" I said "hi im wolf18 nice to meet you" and I went in and kissed her on the cheek. She kind of made a weird face and it got awkward so I left. The guy I was with though said "man you should hit that!". She's probably long forgotten me by now, but it would be interesting to know if she actually liked me or if she is just one of those people who likes to talk to everyone, I just can't tell the difference anymore. Judging from these experiences, do you think she was interested or was I just imagining it? Mutton chops hahahahahaha you are sexy like a Wolverine. F*ck Charles Darwin. This girl seems interested, but what's with the lame "do I know you from somewhere?" line she keeps using on you? Seems like she could think of something else to say. And where is her sense of humor? If you are going to pursue this girl, she better be able to keep up with you in that regard. The music thing was funny and she didn't get it. Ugh! Well if she's cute and you need to get some action, I say go for it Wolfie. But you know I'll be jealous:p;)
Author Wolf18 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 Saw her today. She walked past me and was looking at me , so I said something. We had a very brief, awkward conversation (she strikes me as dumb) , but I'm horny, she's physically attractive and these are truly latter-day times, so I asked if she wanted to keep in touch with me, she actually said yes and gave me her phone number. I don't know how I'm going to proceed, if I even care enough to. There's a good chance this woman just wants to add another soul to her harem of orbiters. I'm thinking about adding this woman to AIM and seeing where it goes.
ShannonMI Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Saw her today. She walked past me and was looking at me , so I said something. We had a very brief, awkward conversation (she strikes me as dumb) , but I'm horny, she's physically attractive and these are truly latter-day times, so I asked if she wanted to keep in touch with me, she actually said yes and gave me her phone number. I don't know how I'm going to proceed, if I even care enough to. There's a good chance this woman just wants to add another soul to her harem of orbiters. I'm thinking about adding this woman to AIM and seeing where it goes. Yeah add her and see what comes of it. Or send her a text.
Nexus One Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Her: "Do you like the Beatles?" Me: "Sorry I'm not into boy bands" Admit it groupies, they were the first popular boy band.
jobaba Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Saw her today. She walked past me and was looking at me , so I said something. We had a very brief, awkward conversation (she strikes me as dumb) , but I'm horny, she's physically attractive and these are truly latter-day times, so I asked if she wanted to keep in touch with me, she actually said yes and gave me her phone number. I don't know how I'm going to proceed, if I even care enough to. There's a good chance this woman just wants to add another soul to her harem of orbiters. I'm thinking about adding this woman to AIM and seeing where it goes. Call her and ask her out. And be ballsy about it. Don't think about it, just do it. C'mon ... what do you have to lose? If you need help on how to ask over the phone, create another thread.
ShannonMI Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Call her and ask her out. And be ballsy about it. Don't think about it, just do it. C'mon ... what do you have to lose? If you need help on how to ask over the phone, create another thread. I honestly don't think Wolfie has to make a thread for suggestions on how to ask a girl out. Pretty sure he's creative enough to figure it out. What do you want from this girl, Wolf? A piece of ass or something more? You said she sounds dumb, but you need to get some action. I think you should talk to her more and go from there. Maybe you'll actually have things in common. If nothing else maybe she'll spread for you;)
Author Wolf18 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 I honestly don't think Wolfie has to make a thread for suggestions on how to ask a girl out. Pretty sure he's creative enough to figure it out. What do you want from this girl, Wolf? A piece of ass or something more? You said she sounds dumb, but you need to get some action. I think you should talk to her more and go from there. Maybe you'll actually have things in common. If nothing else maybe she'll spread for you;) I want to bang her without making any effort. A part of me wants to jump on this and give it a shot, but another part of me says theres a 99% chance that nothing will come out of it and id rather spend my time and money on something more interesting and guaranteed like a bottle of black label whiskey and papa johns. Call her and ask her out. And be ballsy about it. Don't think about it, just do it. C'mon ... what do you have to lose? If you need help on how to ask over the phone, create another thread. [/Quote] Maybe if I'm bored one of these days I'll ask her out.
Author Wolf18 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 (edited) I think dealing women is one of the few investments that 9 out of 10 times comes back as negative . I actually enjoy going up against the odds and I'm not afraid of anything, its just that those odds are too slanted even for me. Edited December 13, 2011 by Wolf18
ShannonMI Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I want to bang her without making any effort. A part of me wants to jump on this and give it a shot, but another part of me says theres a 99% chance that nothing will come out of it and id rather spend my time and money on something more interesting and guaranteed like a bottle of black label whiskey and papa johns. Maybe if I'm bored one of these days I'll ask her out. Hahahahahahaha you want to bang her without spending money on her and without having to court her ass. That's what it boils down to and that's fine. Why do you think nothing will come of it? She must be somewhat interested in you if she's made a point to talk to you numerous times and gave you her number. So maybe she likes you. Times are tough when pizza and booze wins out over pussy:lmao: Just remember I love ya, Wolfie.
ShannonMI Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I think dealing women is one of the few investments that 9 out of 10 times comes back as negative . I actually enjoy going up against the odds and I'm not afraid of anything, its just that those odds are too slanted even for me. Those are some sh*tty ass odds, Wolf. It's not like you are ugly and don't have a awesome personality. It shouldn't be that hard for you. Although you do live in uppity NYC and you've said that the dating scene is tough. Time to move baby.
Author Wolf18 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Posted December 14, 2011 (edited) I don't know shannon, I don't like to date people when I have no idea who they are, and I especially HATE feeling like I'm under someone's microscope . I would bang her like i've slept with women in the past, if it didn't require any effort on my part, but I just would rather use my effort on people I consider friends or worthwhile. Most males would be content to take out a random girl and shower her with attention solely because she's hot, but I don't like to do that. I would much rather have a girl whose my friend (and would be friends with even if she was male) that I can bang sometimes, rather than going out with numerous random women. Edited December 14, 2011 by Wolf18
ShannonMI Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 I don't know shannon, I don't like to date people when I have no idea who they are, and I especially HATE feeling like I'm under someone's microscope . I would bang her like i've slept with women in the past, if it didn't require any effort on my part, but I just would rather use my effort on people I consider friends or worthwhile. Most males would be content to take out a random girl and shower her with attention solely because she's hot, but I don't like to do that. I would much rather have a girl whose my friend (and would be friends with even if she was male) that I can bang sometimes, rather than going out with numerous random women. I hear ya. But some girls are worthwhile even if you don't know them. Getting to know them does take some effort though. I think you've become way too discouraged and now you just don't want to deal with the dating sh*t anymore. I understand that. You just want a friends with benefits type of thing? No strings attached. Or do you want a friend who you bang and who you could possibly later have a legit relationship with? Have you ever been in love Wolfie?
Author Wolf18 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Posted December 14, 2011 I hear ya. But some girls are worthwhile even if you don't know them. Getting to know them does take some effort though. I think you've become way too discouraged and now you just don't want to deal with the dating sh*t anymore. I understand that.[/Quote] True You just want a friends with benefits type of thing? No strings attached. Or do you want a friend who you bang and who you could possibly later have a legit relationship with?[/Quote] I would prefer either of them, I just want to be myself and have fun which I never can do around women (with a few notable exceptions) without drawing their ire or getting bitched at. Have you ever been in love Wolfie? [/Quote] romantically loved, maybe once.
ShannonMI Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 (edited) True I would prefer either of them, I just want to be myself and have fun which I never can do around women (with a few notable exceptions) without drawing their ire or getting bitched at. romantically loved, maybe once. You're 22, so being in love once is about right for your age and the fact you say not many women can deal with your intense personality. You say "loved" as in the girl loved you or you loved the girl? Were you both in love with each other? What does "being yourself" entail? Like raising hell and acting a fool? Maybe it's time to stop that behavior, Wolfie. I know it's fun, but maybe it's time to be a good boy;) Edited December 14, 2011 by ShannonMI
Author Wolf18 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Posted December 14, 2011 You're 22, so being in love once is about right for your age and the fact you say not many women can deal with your intense personality. You say "loved" as in the girl loved you or you loved the girl? Were you both in love with each other?[/Quote] I only loved one girl and it wasn't reciprocated. I've had a couple of girls claim they loved me, but either I didnt care for them or they were fickle. What does "being yourself" entail? Like raising hell and acting a fool? Maybe it's time to stop that behavior, Wolfie. I know it's fun, but maybe it's time to be a good boy;)[/Quote] I don't know , I like doing what I do. Maybe I was just born to be the perpetual charlie sheen bachelor
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