irc333 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 There's this male friend of mine, probably early to mid-40's. His method of getting to know women, has been purely through group outings. Or if he's out with a group of women, going out dancing, movies, etc. He thinks the BEST way to get to know a woman, is through group outing experiences and seeing how they behave in a group environment, you can pretty much figure out how they are by those means. HE thinks that way you can weed out the people in the group setting, as opposed to going out on a one-on-one date. Say, you had an eye on a woman, and then you find out she's rather unpleasant and vulgar, tends to over drink alcohol and gets boisterous, and you're thinking "Whew, glad I didn't ask her out." While some other woman in the group, after getting to know THEM, you figure, "Hm, she seems pretty nice, pleasant and funny, and also rather kind" This is after quite a few weekends of outings with the same people. Basically, you can get to know 5 different women at once, and then finding out which one you click with the most...and after about weekend 5, "Hey, how about you and I, just the 2 of us, go out dancing alone?"
refurb Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 If things don't go well, that's also a great way to get yourself excluded from these group outings! RF
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