Lonely Ronin Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Back story: I'm interested in a women that works in my company, and is part of my social circle. She joined the company a few months ago, and over the last week or so has been more chatty with me, as I've payed more attention to her than I did initially. after some chatting/light flirting via twitter last night, some friends have even started talking. My hang up, is that she is a co-worker, and pretty much my ideal match (physically, socially, intellectually), couple that with the fact that she is really hard to read, and I'm slightly weary of just saying f it and asking her out. So, how do women feel about dating co-workers, are you more cautious, shy, closed off, or completely against it?
Author Lonely Ronin Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Completely different division, but I do need to interact with her department weekly. It's probably worth mentioning that I do have an ex (multi-year relationship) in my division, but that ended like a year and a half ago. she joined the company right at the end of our relationship, and is actually dating a pier in my department. Is she in the same department?
FitChick Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 she joined the company right at the end of our relationship, and is actually dating a pier in my department. Ouch, sounds painful with all the splinters.
Author Lonely Ronin Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Damn auto complete.... Ouch, sounds painful with all the splinters.
ditzchic Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 I would be open to dating a coworker if and only if we were EXTREMELY compatible and i didn't see any possible pitfalls that would make it a rough or emotional split for either party. I wouldn't just take a hopeful shot in the dark with someone I have to see and act professional around on a daily basis.
futuregopher Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 How old are you and the co-worker? What positions rank wise are you two in?
Author Lonely Ronin Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 I'm in my early 30's she is in her late 20's. I'm a regular employee (used to be a manager, but switched to a different department kept the pay and dropped the bs), she is a manager. How old are you and the co-worker? What positions rank wise are you two in?
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