Lovely_Gal Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 He told me he cheated on me and then dumped me. I was very sad, wanted to fight for our relationship but he told me he loved this other woman so I said okay whatever. His brother came over to bring my stuff over to my house because his brother did not want to talk to me. And he told me was sorry and we slept together. After that he spent the entire night over and I enjoyed it. Is it okay to occasionally keep seeing him or should I not? He also apologized but I told him it was not his fault. He said we will see how things will work out and gave me a kiss.
mike588 Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 He told me he cheated on me and then dumped me. I was very sad, wanted to fight for our relationship but he told me he loved this other woman so I said okay whatever. His brother came over to bring my stuff over to my house because his brother did not want to talk to me. And he told me was sorry and we slept together. After that he spent the entire night over and I enjoyed it. Is it okay to occasionally keep seeing him or should I not? He also apologized but I told him it was not his fault. He said we will see how things will work out and gave me a kiss. You slept with his brother?
Author Lovely_Gal Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 Yes, I did not intend to sleep with his brother. But I did, I enjoyed it and he stayed the night. He has since asked me on a date. We are just enjoying each other's company and have no idea where we are going with this.
mike588 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Yes, I did not intend to sleep with his brother. But I did, I enjoyed it and he stayed the night. He has since asked me on a date. We are just enjoying each other's company and have no idea where we are going with this. Are you doing this to stay close to your ex.,, or is it to make him, jealous,, revenge??
wow123 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 Yes, I did not intend to sleep with his brother. But I did, I enjoyed it and he stayed the night. He has since asked me on a date. We are just enjoying each other's company and have no idea where we are going with this.'' This is one of the most shocking stories I've ever read. I would just say that this guy may ruin the relationship between his brother and himself for life.
mike588 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 He told me he cheated on me and then dumped me. I was very sad, wanted to fight for our relationship but he told me he loved this other woman so I said okay whatever. His brother came over to bring my stuff over to my house because his brother did not want to talk to me. And he told me was sorry and we slept together. After that he spent the entire night over and I enjoyed it. Is it okay to occasionally keep seeing him or should I not? He also apologized but I told him it was not his fault. He said we will see how things will work out and gave me a kiss. Seriously I don't think this is a good thing, you need a clean break from him including family.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 It is not anywhere near to a "most shocking" story. For all we know the outsider 'brother' had been pining for the girlfriend/OP for a long, long time. He showed his true colors by swooping in and getting a 'piece' while she was indeed vulnerable, but he did simultaneously fit the bill as someone she could 'trust' (at least as far as safety, and needing a friend go). Maybe both brothers are heading toward getting exactly what they deserve if their brotherly relationship blows-up over this, but I doubt anybody could be so fortunate. The OP should use the outsider 'brother's' actions to further assure herself that she is better off not being mixed-in with such a family.
wow123 Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 It is not anywhere near to a "most shocking" story. For all we know the outsider 'brother' had been pining for the girlfriend/OP for a long, long time. He showed his true colors by swooping in and getting a 'piece' while she was indeed vulnerable, but he did simultaneously fit the bill as someone she could 'trust' (at least as far as safety, and needing a friend go). Maybe both brothers are heading toward getting exactly what they deserve if their brotherly relationship blows-up over this, but I doubt anybody could be so fortunate. The OP should use the outsider 'brother's' actions to further assure herself that she is better off not being mixed-in with such a family. It's sad that you don't find this shocking. A man sleeping with his brother's ex.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 '' one of the most shocking stories I've ever read. One could turn on one episode of Jerry Springer and find more shocking stories than this. I guess he could then have his neighbor write the story out, if you wanted to get technical. A man sleeping with his brother's ex is far more common than you seem to want to believe. A man sleeping with his brother's current wife/girlfriend would have almost no chance of qualifying as "one of the most shocking stories (you or) I have ever read". I don't know why society has this unquenched need to sensationalize everything. I can't decide whether I feel that Joe Paterno's wife getting tossed out of a swimming pool at the Penn State campus is "more shocking" or "less shocking" than is this story about the brother's ex girlfriend. Neither comes close to being among "the most shocking stories" we have ever read.
Author Lovely_Gal Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 We had been together for 3 years, he cheated, told me he loved another woman and dumped me. I didn't intend on sleeping with his brother nor did I think at the time it was wrong. However, it was very wrong but the problem is I actually enjoyed the sex. Maybe I am more confused or hurt. You're right I need to take some time away from this family.
bittersweet memories Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Yes, I did not intend to sleep with his brother. But I did, I enjoyed it and he stayed the night. He has since asked me on a date. We are just enjoying each other's company and have no idea where we are going with this. You were with your boyfriend of 3 years brother? Ewww..that's sick!
Author Lovely_Gal Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 You were with your boyfriend of 3 years brother? Ewww..that's sick! No, I was with the man who dumped me for 3 years. Not his brother.
mike588 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Once a wh0re always a wh0re. But then that's to be expected from an Ameriskank piece of garbage like yaself. Shallow,very shallow!
Author Lovely_Gal Posted December 4, 2011 Author Posted December 4, 2011 Once a wh0re always a wh0re. But then that's to be expected from an Ameriskank piece of garbage like yaself. I am not a whore. I was with this man for 3 years, he cheated on me, dumped me and I was a single woman when I slept with another man. Yes, it was his brother but we were both single.
elizabeth26 Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 I think there is way too much judgment being passed, maybe you all need to take a long hard look in a mirror. This type of breakup is devastating. At least he had the gall to come clean, was he cheating for some time? My ex (7 year relationship) left me for his best friend's little sister. Because "it felt right with her". People do crazy things. If you like him date him, don't worry what these losers say.
Author Lovely_Gal Posted December 6, 2011 Author Posted December 6, 2011 I started to notice him coming home late. I finally just begged him to tell me the truth and not only did he tell me the truth ..he dumped me and told me he never loved me.
Fufu Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Are you sure you want to date his brother? or should i ask. are you sure you are ready for any dating right now? It doesn't seem to me you are emotionally ready to be in a relationship.
Author Lovely_Gal Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 Guess some of you were right. I am single but hey it's all good and I've moved on.
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