that dude Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 ok so i was seeing this girl, i thought we were exclusive but apparently she did not. She ended up hooking up with someone else and we did not talk for two weeks. It has been a month now and we agreed to try again but this time we talked and acknowledged that we are dating and exclusive. I still don't trust her 100% but I let her know that if she shows that things will be different this time she will regain my trust. It upset her that I don't fully trust her yet, but its the truth and i'm not going to lie about that. Is it unreasonable to tell her that she will have to earn back my trust? And do you think that things can still work out for us?has it been long enough?
sugarmomma Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 I wouldn't suggest that you get emotionally invested in someone that does not want to be exclusive with you from the beginning. Date some other women and explore your options but don't put all your eggs in this basket.
phineas Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Why did you think you were exclusive? was it something she said to discourage you from seeing other women? define "hooking up" to me that's sex. I've met way to many women lately that act like they would be sitting home alone if it wern't for me. They talk about how their not "interested in dating anyone else" but their sleeping with an ex or have a FWB but since they don't want to "date" these guys they convince themselves their not being shady with me. essentially they want to try & put me on the back-burner while they figure it out & that just tells me they really arn't all that into me & just bored so I bail. OP, if you arn't going to get exactly what the other guy got the next time you meet with this woman get the hell out & don't look back. She's just going to waste your time.
Author that dude Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 she had sex with another guy. She drunkenly told me that she wanted to wait to have sex "its not like ill be hooking up with anyone else". She wanted to see if I would stay with her. I took this as being exclusive but apparently she dosen't even remember saying it
phineas Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 she had sex with another guy. She drunkenly told me that she wanted to wait to have sex "its not like ill be hooking up with anyone else". She wanted to see if I would stay with her. I took this as being exclusive but apparently she dosen't even remember saying it Don't be a chump. If she had sex with a guy she wasn't exclusive with then she should have NO problem sleeping with the guy who she is now exclusive with. She don't want to sleep with you? Then she just isn't all that into you. Women that sleep with other men quickly but hold out on other's just arn't attracted to those men.
forms Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 I just love cheats who get upset that you don't now trust them. Drunk girls who don't remember things are great bargains too.
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