randomgirl1 Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 I'm just wondering. My relatives say I dress like a whore. I personally like to wear a lot of make up and I wear tighter sweaters and shirts with cleavage but I always wear jeans no shorts. I am not a promiscuous I've never even kissed a guy. I just dress that way because it represents me more so of who I am. What defines classy and too much like trashy? I mean what's the difference?
insertnamehere Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Believe it or not, science has quantified an answer to your question. Sluttiness is exposure of more than 40% of skin area below the neck. A good example of how this works is to think of a scooped back dress. That dress, if it is long and covers the legs, is classy and sexy. If, on the other hand, it exposes the arms, legs, shoulders, back and cleavage, it's slutty. If you don't mind my asking, how old are you? Because that dictates a lot of what people think about the relative sluttiness of a woman's outfit. A fifteen year old in a scooped back dress is a slut no matter what. A 40 year old is considered daring.
Author randomgirl1 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 I'm a virgin so nope I'm not a whore and I don't wear dresses or skirts. I don't show my legs. I have a nice shape upside down triangle so my tops are revealing. I'm pretty into my appearance. But I don't need shorts as they're too skinny my bottom half that is. I'm 18but according to sciece I only reveal 10%.
make me believe Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Is your family very conservative? Jeans and a tight sweater sounds normal, although it can definitely depend on how much cleavage you're showing and what your makeup looks like. Tons of poorly applied makeup will look trashy, but well applied makeup should look good. A little bit of cleavage can be sexy, but too much will also look trashy. Do you ALWAYS wear something that shows your cleavage? If so it might make you look like a bit of an attention whore. There's no need to show cleavage at family functions, for example. Save it for when it's appropriate, you know?
Elysian Powder Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 You are an attention whore then. which female isn't one?
Author randomgirl1 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 Is your family very conservative? Jeans and a tight sweater sounds normal, although it can definitely depend on how much cleavage you're showing and what your makeup looks like. Tons of poorly applied makeup will look trashy, but well applied makeup should look good. A little bit of cleavage can be sexy, but too much will also look trashy. Do you ALWAYS wear something that shows your cleavage? If so it might make you look like a bit of an attention whore. There's no need to show cleavage at family functions, for example. Save it for when it's appropriate, you know? I guess I don't do it to impress it's rather that I like my body type more than most perhaps because I read mine was the rarest. Plus I just like looking the best. I do wear a lot of make up but it's neatly done. Everyone always says I do my make up very artistically without any lessons in art or make up. But yea it ends up looking I guess nice but it takes me an hour to do it. And some relatives have said I look right for the club or porn. I guess since it's exaggerated. But I know girls with more make up. They're not all whores. And I'm shy I'm not into attention. also my family has always been hard on the bigger chested type women in the familyy if we wear the same rthings as another women then we must be whores. But I really rather represent myself ccorrectly you know. I guess my family is religious not completely but some.
Fondue Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 You were looking for an answer to your question, but you seem to be determined to defend your look, regardless of the replies you are receiving. I'm wondering what your intentions are. And yes, you're coming off as looking for attention because of this. Anyway, despite all that, I will answer your original post. You look like a whore because your makeup. You said it yourself, you spend an hour doing it and your family says you belong in a porn movie. Probably the kind of ends up in all your black makeup smeared all over your face, but that's another story. Furthermore, regardless of whether or not you w shorts/skirts, I'm sure you dabble in skin-tight jeans or yoga pants, showing off your ass. It's in style right now, yes, but it may come off as whorish if you do it wrong. It's especially evident if you wear pair of pants that show the lining on your panties or even some camel-toe. Additionally, your choice in a top may also be controversial. You don't have to see the entire rack for someone to know what your tits look like. Many women can show off their beautiful chest in a classy way, where they garner attention, but they're more or less concealed. There are women whom also do this wrong. Where they wear a very low cut sweater/shirt/etc. that show everything but the nipples. Or even better, when women wear a satchel with the strap that runs right between their tits, separating them, making them pop out even more. This isn't an "ooops, I just feel comfortable in this, it's not about my boobs," every man knows this is code for: "stare at my glorious chest. I hope I have your attention now." I can go on and on, but you get the point. And even if you do, you will disregard everything I wrote and maintain your defense... Just like you have all throughout this thread.
Ross MwcFan Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 I'm just wondering. My relatives say I dress like a whore. I personally like to wear a lot of make up and I wear tighter sweaters and shirts with cleavage but I always wear jeans no shorts. I am not a promiscuous I've never even kissed a guy. I just dress that way because it represents me more so of who I am. What defines classy and too much like trashy? I mean what's the difference? It's all relative. One person will think you look fine, another will think you look trashy, and another will think you look inbetween. Just wear what you feel good in and **** everyone else. That's what I've always done. As for your relatives, I think it's terrible that they're talking about you like that.
Author randomgirl1 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 I'm not defending it's not that big of a deal since I am not one. I also said I'm an upside down triangle in body shape. I don't have an ass so jeanwise. I just wear anything I'm never essentuating anything because I know my stregnths and weaknesses. And I'm pretty much black in skin tone of course I wear dark make up. But you sound a bit like my mom. Appreciate your opinion. I was curious what personal opinion was. I agree with pp though it's a matter of comfortability.
insertnamehere Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 By the sound of it, it's more family being iffy than anything else. You're never gonna make everyone happy. Generally, close-fitting clothes aren't perceived as slutty unless they're really giving away the goods (nipples showing, camel toe, etc).
Author randomgirl1 Posted November 28, 2011 Author Posted November 28, 2011 to mention it I have worn leggings when I was youmger but I'm very small and my moms idea so not lately these years.
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