lillypolo Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 well, I sent him a letter, against my better judgement. told him everything i had wanted to say. explained everything I thought Id done wrong, cleared up all misconceptions i could think of. Told him I still cared and that if he continued to ignore me and treat me likeI dont exist then I want nothing more to do with him... im not waiting; but if he ddi it was in his hands. 3 months down the line, we finally meet again. I had got no reply to my letter, heard NOTHING then he sees me at the party and asks me how Ive been and makes the effort to talk! for the first time in 1.5 years, it wasnt me making the first move. We didnt talk for long, and we went shy again. I contacted him a few days later asking for help with something and he replied immediately, but very bluntly and not at al affectionately. But a reply nonetheless. Good progress? Im still a little shocked!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 I think that is one of those points in life where you have to really congratulate yourself for having been strong enough to show the vulnerability required to express exactly how you feel. What he did with the information is mostly independent of you. Just try to remember this point in your life, for times in the future when you are unsure whether you have the strength to go through with showing vulnerability and expressing your honest feelings.
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