Cosmo Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 I just noticed 1 important fact: she always makes minimal effort when she initiates contact and then she expects me to flirt, shower her with compliments, boost her ego,...etc. I found out this woman i liked, who contacted me only when she broke up with her boyfriend (she has choosen over me) then went back to him after 2 months then broke up after 5months, is now looking for me........ The thing that upsets me: another guy told me she was heavily flirting with an older guy one night....now when she talks to me there is a tiny flirting but she's so passive with me, she just smiles, she isn't so forward like with the older dude (she invited him to her place !!). WHY ? Is it because she knows for a fact that i like her but the other dude is more mysterious ? I can sleep with her if i like but her way to be so passive with me makes me angry, she doesn't get HOT with me, how can i change that ?
dasein Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 Date better looking women than her and make sure she sees them. The only surefire way I know.
Eddie Edirol Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 She isnt over her boyfriend, and she is in a bad place right now. She is probably using you and anyone else she can to rebound and get over him, but it wont work for a looooong time. So as of now, theres nothing you can do to make her truly hot for you. You can make her jealous by letting her see you with other women, but you arent the one that will make her forget about the last guy. Dont bother with this one, it will just be a roller coaster ride to nowhere. Since she isnt really attracted to you anyway, her passive flirting is probably the best youre gonna get from her. Leave her be to find ways to get over her last guy.
Author Cosmo Posted November 29, 2011 Author Posted November 29, 2011 thanks for your input, after reading you, i got a more clear mind ! i'm considering to flirt with other chicks, and forget about this one. I made too much efforts, like inviting her to cool places, spending some time, having fun. And by the way, i know other girls that are hotter than her, but i treat her like she's a s*xbomb and she obviously enjoys it. now byebye attentionw*ore
KindMan Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 Nice bro! attentionw*ores should be hung by their ovaries, that should get them plenty of attention.
phineas Posted November 29, 2011 Posted November 29, 2011 (edited) Date better looking women than her and make sure she sees them. The only surefire way I know. doesn't even need to be a hotter woman. Just someone who is an opposite in looks. Big boobs vs small boobs. Full-figured vs petit. Blond vs Brunette. Annoying peroxide blond vs any other hair color. LOL! A less attractive woman that thinks she's all that and a bag of chips with some dip (basically a bigger attention whore) really does it. LOL! I mean nothing sticks in a woman's craw more than her man dropping her for a less attractive woman. It's all about using their own jealousy & insecurities against them. But in the end, you really arn't winning any prize. Better to find a woman that doesn't play these games. Edited November 29, 2011 by phineas
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