randomgirl1 Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 I was just reading another guy's post about dating a transwoman. And was wondering where most people stand wit this. I'm actually attracted to many transsexual women not sure why but my favorite celeb crush is a post op transsexual. I wouldn't date a transman though. One I thought was attractive. But his body wasn't my type I'm not the type that like a whole bunch of muscles and I hate fat I'm more into leaner guys with angles and legnth a matter of attraction. But doesn't seem to work with transmen idk why. But yea like I'd not mind dating a transsexual girl but probably would never happen but I wouldn't date a transguy. I've never dated any though so what's your experience if you've had one and are you open to it or not?
ShannonMI Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 I was just reading another guy's post about dating a transwoman. And was wondering where most people stand wit this. I'm actually attracted to many transsexual women not sure why but my favorite celeb crush is a post op transsexual. I wouldn't date a transman though. One I thought was attractive. But his body wasn't my type I'm not the type that like a whole bunch of muscles and I hate fat I'm more into leaner guys with angles and legnth a matter of attraction. But doesn't seem to work with transmen idk why. But yea like I'd not mind dating a transsexual girl but probably would never happen but I wouldn't date a transguy. I've never dated any though so what's your experience if you've had one and are you open to it or not? I saw a show once where there was this female to male transgender and he was gorgeous. He was pre op so he still had female anatomy. He did have his breasts removed though. The thing with POST op female to male transgenders is that their penis is not truly like a real penis. They tend to be rather small. So it may be disappointing to some women. I don't know if I would ever date one. It would totally depend on how manly he was and what kind of penis he had. Yeah to me that matters. Sorry. Male to female post op transgender people on the other hand have vaginas just like a real woman. So a man dating one would probably not notice much of a difference between a real one and one created on an operating table. It will be interesting to see what people have to say on this thread.
Author randomgirl1 Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 I saw a show once where there was this female to male transgender and he was gorgeous. He was pre op so he still had female anatomy. He did have his breasts removed though. The thing with POST op female to male transgenders is that their penis is not truly like a real penis. They tend to be rather small. So it may be disappointing to some women. I don't know if I would ever date one. It would totally depend on how manly he was and what kind of penis he had. Yeah to me that matters. Sorry. Male to female post op transgender people on the other hand have vaginas just like a real woman. So a man dating one would probably not notice much of a difference between a real one and one created on an operating table. It will be interesting to see what people have to say on this thread. that's another reason I don't find it attractive because I love boobs and male genitalia. I'm not interested if neither are present. Plus I also want t get married and have children but I know there's ways around it imo I'd like to have a child together.
FitChick Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 No, but I might have him/her as a platonic friend if we got along. I wouldn't date a transvestite either, although he'd certainly be good for laughs when dressed up.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 would you date someone who was transgender? There is only one way to reach a point of "was transgender(ed)". And mere mortals can't date them. You either are transgender(ed), or you're not.
Woggle Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 No. Nothing against them but I prefer a natural born woman.
eerie_reverie Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 No way. I wouldn't judge someone for going through it but I doubt I'd be attracted to someone so complicated. Plus I want shared biological kids with my partner.
Ninjainpajamas Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 I'd rather jump in a pool filled with alligators and a great white shark just to make sure the job gets done.
Author randomgirl1 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 If he truly were indistinguishable from a guy post-op than I'd consider it but that couldn't be the case given where the technology is now. I'd even rather date a woman than a female to male tranny who didn't look fully male (which none of them do at this point). The idea of someone *between* sexes, neither here nor there, really creeps me out. One guy I dated years ago decided he was a woman in a man's body and has since transitioned. But I know the backstory and I think he just has psychological problems and doesn't really have gender dysphoria. I still consider him a guy. I guess that's made me skeptical of a lot of trannies. yea to me the combinations or lack of it is annoying like pre-op male to female transsexuals have 1 or 2 things that I like so it's ok. But this way it gets cheat twice over which loses my interest. But you're right I do believe transsecuals some things that are controversial.....
Casablanca Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 Nope, nothing wrong with them, I wouldnt care if they were the sexist thing alive for me, I want to have children with my partner, biological, not adopt, 0% of that happening with a transgender.
sassysf Posted November 28, 2011 Posted November 28, 2011 I was just reading another guy's post about dating a transwoman. And was wondering where most people stand wit this. I'm actually attracted to many transsexual women not sure why but my favorite celeb crush is a post op transsexual. I wouldn't date a transman though. One I thought was attractive. But his body wasn't my type I'm not the type that like a whole bunch of muscles and I hate fat I'm more into leaner guys with angles and legnth a matter of attraction. But doesn't seem to work with transmen idk why. But yea like I'd not mind dating a transsexual girl but probably would never happen but I wouldn't date a transguy. I've never dated any though so what's your experience if you've had one and are you open to it or not? There was a woman transitioning to a guy who I was semi interested in early this year. I'm definitely straight and I don't think she knows whether she wants to make the full transition, so that was a concern for me. She now has a g/f though, so a moot point for me now, lol.
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