singlelife Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 We had broken up in the spring and we were hot for each other but we just couldn't get along. We argued over the silliest things. So the last time we saw each other she went off on me and I told her I never wanted to talk to her again because this is too insane. Since then she has driven by my house several times and even stopped in the middle of the street while I was at my neighbors to see what I was doing. That really pissed my neighbors off but that's another story. I haven't seen her in several months then last night I was totally smashed at the bar and she comes in with one of her gf. She is very hot and usually has no problem with guys hitting on her. She was dancing with her gf all night in my area ( I was at the bar getting my drink on ). Her gf danced with another dude a few times but my ex danced by herself. Atthis time in my life I am not mad at her at all but I didn't want to talk to her. I did check her out a little bit because she is hot. It seemed like her gf was giving her the scoop that I was checking her out. Ater the club closed I left and came home. I didn't try to talk to her at all. Was wondering if she was wanting to flaunt herself or was there more to it. If we didn't argue so much i n the past I would have said hello just to be nice but I wouldn't have wanted to try and take her home.
Author singlelife Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 Ok ladies, somebody knows something. I know you have done this before. SPill the beans.
Fondue Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that she was trying to flaunt her stuff and maybe even make you a little jealous, "you had this before, now it's no longer yours." She was probably waiting for you to approach her and start gushing over her, only so she could flat out reject your advances-- so she feels empowered and good about herself. The fact that you didn't do this likely pissed her off. You did make a minor error in checking her out, but you most likely annoyed her more than made her feel proud of herself.
Author singlelife Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that she was trying to flaunt her stuff and maybe even make you a little jealous, "you had this before, now it's no longer yours." She was probably waiting for you to approach her and start gushing over her, only so she could flat out reject your advances-- so she feels empowered and good about herself. The fact that you didn't do this likely pissed her off. You did make a minor error in checking her out, but you most likely annoyed her more than made her feel proud of herself. She wasn't the only girl I was checking out or whom was dancing for me like that. ANd if someone is right there obviously you are going to look and see it. I was looking not gushing. Well if she was thinking I want her then her mission was impossible.
Author singlelife Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 I was entertaining the thought of being friends...not fwb just friends because she was also cool to hang with, but from what you say I was right in thinking it ain't worth it.
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