barriob Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 So my ex and I have been talking on and off. it has been 5 months since the break up. he texts me then suddenly stops and then texts me again. His excuse for not texting me at times is that he is busy. He recently told me a couple days ago that he doesnt wanna rekindle anything, doesnt wanna talk on the phone, nor does he want to do anything with me. I was so hurt. why does he text me when he wants to then.
wilsonx Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 Because you allow him too, its time to GO NC and stop answering him...
iPhone Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 I believe Wilson is inferring that you allow him to by answering him when he contacts you. Why does he contact you? Could be things like he feels guilty and wants to talk to you to relieve that. Could be that he wants to keep tabs on you (I'd say potentially control you, but if he outright said he didn't want to rekindle things, then that is not indicative of controlling behavior) Could be he is confused on everything... but don't put much weight into this one... In any case, don't let him string you along. Why should you?
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