Lurker1983 Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 This is what a man told me. He says that the attractiveness of men hitting you pretty much reflects your attractiveness. He says that women miscalculate their looks and then get frustrated that they're getting hit on by average to below average-looking males. He said the only way to find out your level of attractiveness is to average the rating of the men hitting on you. Do you posters agree or disagree? I don't know if I would agree. I have some pretty female friends that get hit on a lot by men that are older and larger than them, but I don't think that means that my friends are also old and heavy-set. It also depends on where you're seeking a mate. If you sign up for online dating, you're being exposed to all types of people that don't mind sending a wink. Tell me your thoughts.
AD1980 Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 With women its different they can get hit on by guys above their league because some guys will attempt to sleep with anything that doesnt totally repulse them in turn a women might get an inflated ego from passes by hot men As far as your point about who hits on you determining attratciveness level its not a definite way to gauge things but if your in your 20's and 30's and have only been hit on by average and ugly guys and never by attractive men chances are you yourself are not that hot
patience82 Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 i dont agree.. what i know is youll know youre attractive if a kid ages 3 till 6 wants to be around you .. the explanation is .. they are still innocent to judge you .. and usually kids that age are scared of not so nice "things" .. i read it somewhere long time ago ..
Feelsgoodman Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 If you were attractive, you would know it. If you were ugly, you would know it. If you're not sure, you're most likely average.
Feelsgoodman Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 i dont agree.. what i know is youll know youre attractive if a kid ages 3 till 6 wants to be around you .. This is possibly the creepiest thing I've read on this forum...ever!
Author Lurker1983 Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 i dont agree.. what i know is youll know youre attractive if a kid ages 3 till 6 wants to be around you .. the explanation is .. they are still innocent to judge you .. and usually kids that age are scared of not so nice "things" .. i read it somewhere long time ago .. That's interesting.
Author Lurker1983 Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 If you were attractive, you would know it. If you were ugly, you would know it. If you're not sure, you're most likely average. So, which one are you?
laotzu Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 From a narcissistic perspective, I've always really wanted to know how attractive I am to the opposite sex. And no matter how many times attractive women tell me I'm good looking or I have an attractive girlfriend, I always think I'm not very good looking. It's weird - I think I just need constant reinforcement or something, which isn't good. I guess a lot of it comes down to whether or not you're in good physical shape, really, which I do have. And then confidence. If you're in poor shape and unconfident, you're probably not very attractive to the opposite sex.
Author Lurker1983 Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 From a narcissistic perspective, I've always really wanted to know how attractive I am to the opposite sex. And no matter how many times attractive women tell me I'm good looking or I have an attractive girlfriend, I always think I'm not very good looking. It's weird - I think I just need constant reinforcement or something, which isn't good. This isn't narcissistic, but more like a craving of validation/reassurance from the opposite sex. Narcissists are people with a lack of empathy...very similar to sociopaths. People confuse narcissists for being people that are fascinated with physical appearance.
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