Michael F Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 hey , i want to introduce my self first , my name is michael farshoukh , im from lebanon , im 16 years old . And I hope You can help me okay , my frnd steave introduced me to his relatives noor and yasmine , so we become frnds , and i liked yasmine , but yasmine was in a relationship , so we start to chat together , and after 1 week i told her that i like her just like bro and sis like , then after 2 days i told her that i really like her and love her , so she told me i never saw u and im taken , how dare you say to me that .... and blah blah ..... then she told me , now i know that u love me . So i told her to be just a frnd so she accepted that . after 2 weeks , she broke up with her bf cz he wasnt good with her , he never talk to her , no hanging out ... So she always start with conversations , but in the fourth conversation she told me that she need someone to be beside me . So i told her of course . i will always be there for you . then she send me a heart . so we tallked together 4 days . So after that , i told her my feelings about her , so she starts to send hearts . We decided to meet up , Me and noor and yasmine and noors bf. So we start to chat together for 4 days . She start to send me hearts and kisses for evry good word . she told me that your the kindst person i ever know in my life . So she told me to call her , i call her and she was happy , and she told that i entered in her heart , i told her i love you so much she told me I love you 90% yes and 10 % no . i asked her what is the 10% ?? she told me i wanna see if you really love me when we meet up . So we meeted up , and so she loved me more and we start to walk around and our hands where together , and we watched a movie , she put her head on my shoulder , then the movie is finished so we sayed goodbye see u later and i will miss you , kisses .... At The same night , we chat together , and she told me i adore you , i love you so much , i feel safe when i was with u , im crazy in you ... the next day she told me that she want a space because she wanted to forget her xbf , and i will return to you then after 6 days she told me that she is not ready for any relation ships , i told her i was so depressed . and she dont want me to call her back. She is not answering my conversatios anymore , but she answer it but like she is not caring about me anymore . So I told her we want to meet up again , just like frnds , she told me i dont have time , i told her okay no probleme another time , saturday ?? she told me i cant my cousin is comming , tuesday ?? she told me i cant im going to see my frnd. So one day i found a frnd who post on her wall (I adore you) , so that thing maked me like a monster , i say to her , you told me that you hate lying , why did you lie to me ?? who that guy who psted i adore you ??? so she ddnt replie .Unintentionally i say to her that you are a liar . she blocked and she does not reply anymore at my conv. So i asked noor to help me , tolday she helped me , yasmiine was very angry of me , i told her plz im sorry very very sorry , the words i say to you ( the lie thing) was like a stone in my heart, she told me , okay we can be just frnds , and im not ready for any relation ship , and im not gonne return to be ur gf, but she still block me , and she is not replying. what i should do now ?? can you help me ?? will she unblock me ?? hiw to let her return to be my gf ?? And thnk you <3
Author Michael F Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 guys im still waiting plz i need help plz answer me and help me
iPhone Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 (edited) Well I'm not sure how the girls in Lebanon are, but I know human nature pretty well. Here's what I'd say. You are 16. She is probably that age or younger. You didn't love her. She didn't love you. Yes, I'm sure that hurts to hear. I've heard it before too. It's a reality, though. The most intense relationships burn out the quickest. She jumped into your arms because she lost her ex, and you jumped into hers for whatever reason. You both moved too fast, and you did it blindly. So what should you do? Never speak to her again. If she really cared, she'd be contacting you. You contacting her is pushing her away. You have a lot of maturing to do before you understand what love is. I am almost 25 and I don't know if I know what love is. But I do know you didn't love her, and she didn't love you. One day you will fall in love, and it will truly be great. Unlike this. Edited November 26, 2011 by iPhone
Author Michael F Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 Thank you so much my frnd to the help , but i want to tell something that , i loved her like hell , and she was crazy in me , But now after the breakup like what i said noor yesterday , she helped me so yasmine told me okay we be just frnds and i will not return to be ur gf , but she still blocked me . can you help me about this block ??? does she want time to unblock me ??? is there any hope to return in love again ??
iPhone Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 You need to understand, love doesn't bloom in short periods of time. I don't know if you're familiar with the quote "Love at first sight", but it doesn't exist. It's lust at first sight, if anything. Love takes very long to bloom. I have been in a relationship for 2 years and even I think I am still naive about love. Anyway, about whether she will unblock you or not? I can tell you if you keep trying to pester her, she won't unblock you. You are coming off as needy and desperate and clingy. Leave her alone. If she wants to talk to you she will. But I am telling you, neither of you loved each other. It sounded like you two knew each other for maybe a few weeks.
Downtown Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 I agree with iPhone. Very sage advice for a 24 year old -- or any age, for that matter. Please listen to the phone, Michael.
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