I pushed him to end it. So he did.

[Million.to.1]

Day 1. I gave all I had.. but it was never enough. I'm devastated. I did nothing wrong.

 

My only previous thread tells our back story. 6 months, which may not seem long, but it was intense from the start and we spent ALOT of time together. It's been my first relationship in 7 years.

I loved him, he couldn't love me. He has walls around his heart and even he doesn't understand why.

He says he keeps hurting me, which is true, and he can't keep doing it. I know he is right, but it's hard to accept that he'd rather throw me away than make any sort of effort to work on it.

 

The break-up was crazy. We talked, we cried, we laughed, we kissed, we hugged, we ****ed, we drank wine....we cherished our last time together. It was amazing and terrible all at the same time.

 

I live in N.Z. Its a small place and we have dozens of mutual friends and going hard core NC is going to be tough. I don't want to cut all the cords as I know that one day, we could be great friends. I know I need the space to heal for myself so going NC/ LC.

I explained to him why I need to go NC and he understands. I asked him to put me on the restricted list on Facebook, as i know that if i can see what he says and does, i will constantly stalk him, drive myself crazy and that's not good. I put him on the same. I cannot chat to him on FB or see anything on his profile but we are still "friends".

 

I hope that he one day he will see how good it could of been if he opens his heart, and want me back. I was so good to him and we had a connection that I have never experienced with anyone before. I saw a future, a great one, I really did.

 

It feels really unfair that he will take time to work on his issues, and then another girl will reap all the benefits that he couldn't give to me.

 

I fear so much that I will end up alone. What's wrong with me? Everything good in my life always slips away.

 

I don't have much work on at the moment, and alot of spare time, and I fear I am going to fall into a massive depression which I am prone to. I don't want to talk it out with my friends too much as I would rather just try and have fun with them and not dwell. I tend to do all my crying/thinking/ healing when I am alone anyway.

I'm going to be here alot I think... I know it's going to be a tough time for me for a while.

 

Please help me with advice and support. I really need it.

[patience82]

i must say i admire your courage im undergoing the same situation now.. i cant break lose.. thats my problem..

 

I think the killer is ... You will miss the time you spend with each other..

 

But with what your feeling now,, i had experienced few months ago believe me i prayed to all my dead relatives to all saints and God to take my pain away and to help me let go and eventually after a month i did by simple crying it all out accepting that were not for each other i walked like a zombie who cares let out what youre feeling now and try TRY YOUR BEST TO SMILE its true FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT (wat makes you lucky is you have friends around i didnt have much since im in a foreign country). And think what makes you still lucky despite this unfortunate situation.. and embrace it... appreciate the people who surrounds you now.. STOP THINKING ABOUT THE FUTURE .. its ironic i know but just live life at the present for the mean time.. you have a lot of time to think about who you will be with or not to be with when youre healed.

 

 

.. you see if a man doesnt want you now.. then probably when his bald and fat thats the time he will realize your worth (just makin you smile)

 

But we cannot cry over a spilled milk anymore ... move move move!!! go have a run!!! even if your body doesnt want to, your brain says move.. so move it!! goodluck

 

-n-

[Million.to.1]

Thank-you Patience! What beautiful and positive ways of looking at things.

I know this deep down, but It's really good to hear it said to me over and over because I slip and forget so easily.

[patience82]

Thank-you Patience! What beautiful and positive ways of looking at things.

I know this deep down, but It's really good to hear it said to me over and over because I slip and forget so easily.

 

I know what you feel i broke my bestfriend's eardrums many times i even write reminders like IM OUTSTANDIN I "MUST BE OUTSTANDIN" to all people i meet and post them in my room my work desk ,, on my door (SMILE! so i get reminded that before i meet people in the street i make them happy by smiling at them .. no matter how much heartache i feel..

 

You see.. you will be surprised how many people will be smiling when you do too you will feel good .. its silly for my age im 29 but feelin like a kid helps too ...

 

No matter how serious youre feelin .. find a way to joke about it .. Theres a lot of people who wants to hear your funny whines

 

Its what im doin .. even added matthew hussey the love guru in my facebook! (hes hot you should listen to his advices in youtube!!!) yay.. despite our heartaches we still giggle at some cutie pies out there

[Million.to.1]

Only day 2 and I get a txt.

"are you ok? "

Then a few minutes later... " I'm sorry. I know you probably don't want to here from me..."

 

So I replied, "You need to trust that I will be ok. OK?"

 

Then he replied "I know you will. I just needed to ask. I really do care ***. You know that I hope... "

 

I wish he hadn't sent it. I was having a relatively good day till that!

 

And I hate ampersands! ( ampersands are these ......)

He is just feeling guilty right?

[hoping2heal]

Day 1. I gave all I had.. but it was never enough. I'm devastated. I did nothing wrong.

 

My only previous thread tells our back story. 6 months, which may not seem long, but it was intense from the start and we spent ALOT of time together. It's been my first relationship in 7 years.

I loved him, he couldn't love me. He has walls around his heart and even he doesn't understand why.

He says he keeps hurting me, which is true, and he can't keep doing it. I know he is right, but it's hard to accept that he'd rather throw me away than make any sort of effort to work on it.

 

The break-up was crazy. We talked, we cried, we laughed, we kissed, we hugged, we ****ed, we drank wine....we cherished our last time together. It was amazing and terrible all at the same time.

 

I live in N.Z. Its a small place and we have dozens of mutual friends and going hard core NC is going to be tough. I don't want to cut all the cords as I know that one day, we could be great friends. I know I need the space to heal for myself so going NC/ LC.

I explained to him why I need to go NC and he understands. I asked him to put me on the restricted list on Facebook, as i know that if i can see what he says and does, i will constantly stalk him, drive myself crazy and that's not good. I put him on the same. I cannot chat to him on FB or see anything on his profile but we are still "friends".

 

I hope that he one day he will see how good it could of been if he opens his heart, and want me back. I was so good to him and we had a connection that I have never experienced with anyone before. I saw a future, a great one, I really did.

 

It feels really unfair that he will take time to work on his issues, and then another girl will reap all the benefits that he couldn't give to me.

 

I fear so much that I will end up alone. What's wrong with me? Everything good in my life always slips away.

 

I don't have much work on at the moment, and alot of spare time, and I fear I am going to fall into a massive depression which I am prone to. I don't want to talk it out with my friends too much as I would rather just try and have fun with them and not dwell. I tend to do all my crying/thinking/ healing when I am alone anyway.

I'm going to be here alot I think... I know it's going to be a tough time for me for a while.

 

Please help me with advice and support. I really need it.

 

Hello Million,

 

You mention that your relationship was very intense but that only you were putting out love and it wasn't being reciprocated. That in itself sounds terribly lonely - even if you had stayed together.

 

You don't know why he puts his guard up and does not let people in but it might or might not ever change.

 

You mentioned you don't have much work going on. I don't want to get the message mixed up as to say you wouldn't be in pain if you had work, but I get the feeling that aside from your relationship you may not have felt much fulfillment with your life and that can sometimes be what leads to us dead-end,onesided relationships (or similiar). Sometimes the best thing we have going for ourselves is our relationship and even if that isn't so great either its at least enough to distract us from the fact that we're not satisfied on a personal level, separate from our social relationships. Does that sound like it could possibly be true for you? Are you in a job or career that you really like? Do you feel like you're living up to your potential or do you feel like you aren't getting to do all you would like?

 

Don't take it personally that this man said he couldn't love you. People who are emotionally closed are that way based on things they have gone through or other reasons which have nothing to do with the person they're dating - though it can certainly feel personal when you're loving someone and that love feels like it isn't changing anything - that is the wrong perspective entirely. There are hundreds of wonderful, loving, and fantastic dating partners out there who go through similar and end up taking it personally and wondering why they weren't enough to change the person but those kinds of issues when not in a Gary Marshall or Rob Reiner film require earnest hard work on behalf of the individual totally separate from their romantic relationships.

[Million.to.1]

You mentioned you don't have much work going on. I don't want to get the message mixed up as to say you wouldn't be in pain if you had work, but I get the feeling that aside from your relationship you may not have felt much fulfillment with your life and that can sometimes be what leads to us dead-end,onesided relationships (or similiar). Sometimes the best thing we have going for ourselves is our relationship and even if that isn't so great either its at least enough to distract us from the fact that we're not satisfied on a personal level, separate from our social relationships. Does that sound like it could possibly be true for you? Are you in a job or career that you really like? Do you feel like you're living up to your potential or do you feel like you aren't getting to do all you would like?

 

Um sorry.. But No.. I didn't make it clear and that's my fault. I work free-lance and am self employed and love my career, I do have a job on... a small project... It's just I don't have alot on right at this moment. I'm not super busy and have more free time than usual. This will change. Jobs pop up. Next month I might well be rammed.

Not everyone works in a 9 till 5 land.

 

I actually am really OK with who I am. That's not the issue here at all.

But thanks, and I'm sorry you misunderstood what i meant.

[Million.to.1]

 

You mentioned you don't have much work going on. I don't want to get the message mixed up as to say you wouldn't be in pain if you had work, but I get the feeling that aside from your relationship you may not have felt much fulfillment with your life and that can sometimes be what leads to us dead-end,onesided relationships (or similiar). Sometimes the best thing we have going for ourselves is our relationship and even if that isn't so great either its at least enough to distract us from the fact that we're not satisfied on a personal level, separate from our social relationships. Does that sound like it could possibly be true for you? Are you in a job or career that you really like? Do you feel like you're living up to your potential or do you feel like you aren't getting to do all you would like?

 

 

Um sorry.. But No.. I didn't make it clear and that's my fault. I work free-lance and am self employed and love my career, I do have a job on... a small project... It's just I don't have alot on right at this moment. I'm not super busy and have more free time than usual. This will change. Jobs pop up. Next month I might well be rammed.

Not everyone works in a 9 till 5 land.

 

I actually am really OK with who I am. That's not the issue here at all.

But thanks, and I'm sorry you misunderstood what i meant.

[Million.to.1]

Yesterday i took the time to write my storie detail by detail because its complicated and it got way too long so i don't think many people will be willing to read it

I can't offer you any advice cause i'm lost and don't know what to do myself. But i can't accept the break up even though i pushed it, i want him back and i'm driving myself crazy. Now it has been exactly 2 weeks of non contact and its been one of the hardest things i've ever had to do

 

Please post your story Agatha.. or message it to me. I will read it.

[Million.to.1]

I am such an idiot. Well I don't know... I know he feels guilty and that's why he txt me. I was up all night thinking and sent him this email early this morning.

 

I really just want him to respect N/C and The only way I can get him to do that is to ease the guilt he feels.

 

I know I broke N/C and that was foolish, but I think it will stick from now on. I hope. I really hope. I am such a mess.

 

Here is the email... Thoughts?

 

 

" @font-face { font-family: "Cambria"; }p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal { margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }div.Section1 { page: Section1. I know you are feeling guilty and sad that I’m hurting and want to me tell you “im ok” to ease that feeling for you, but I can’t. It’s only been 2 days and I’m not ok. It’s going to be up and down, as you know.

I don’t know when I will be ok. When I’ve stopped wanting you? I don’t know when /if this will happen as I have lost something I really did not want to lose.

Of course I know you care. Please don’t feel bad, I do respect your decision.

Maybe I can ease your guilt this way instead……

I’m sorry that I dumped all that stuff on you on Friday, got overly emotional and begged, blamed and demanded answers like an idiot. I know this made you feel terrible and I’m sorry.

I’ve thought a bit about it and I can see that I was putting WAY to much pressure on you right from the time I got back from the boat and couldn’t just let things grow and develop naturally. That is my issue, not yours. It was wrong of me to make you feel and that you were a bad guy for not feeling / doing/ saying the things I wanted you to. Your reactions of pushing me away were perfectly understandable and you do not need to feel that you are at fault in any way about this. I know you felt like you were constantly hurting me, but I was only hurting myself with my expectations. You were honest and that’s all you could have been. You are not broken or disconnected.

Just an amazing boyfriend I will miss very much.

I have learnt so much from you and had so much fun… and YOU need to know, that YOU made me very happy. I only upset myself.

No contact is what I need to heal and move forward. Contact makes me step backwards, and I don’t want to keep hurting, I want to be Ok. I have to be Ok. Please trust that I will be, for yourself, and do not contact me. Set me free, be free and free yourself from the guilt of what I know was a tough decision for you.

You have no reason to feel bad anymore.

There is only love in my heart for you, now and always."

 

 

[Jono85]

yeah i'm not sure u needed to send him anything, BUT, i think what you wrote was very beautiful. u sound like a very beautiful person. very mature and understanding.

 

 

i hate to say this, but i AM your ex bf (not literally lol) right now and am going through the EXACT same situation. so it's interesting to see your perspective here as it may give me insights on how my now ex-gf is feeling.

 

we're also supposed to be meeting this saturday, after the breakup, she insisted even though i told her originally how it was a bad idea.

 

she also pressured me a LOT. guilted me a lot, for not saying "i love you" back, among other things. we were dating about 5 months or so. I never lied to her, cheated, nothing, and i think she's such a wonderful person, but i'm just not in love with her. i also have issues and walls up, and don't feel ready for a long term relationship either. i don't even love who i am, or am content with who i am, yet, and for some reason i think it plays a role, however small.

 

the pressure gets to me a ton. especially now that it's the holidays. i didn't want her coming to my very large family christmas party, nor did i want to go to her family things. i know the way she feels about me, and was already feeling extremely guilty about going to her work party coming up (not going anymore obv after the breakup).

 

i don't have any advice or am of any help, but i'm curious about what you now think about having sex, having a great time, the last time you guys saw eachother. do you regret that?? my ex wants to spend the night together this saturday and have one last great time together. i have told her repeatedly that it won't change how i feel, but of course i would want to see her (i do). of course i miss her like crazy and care for her very deeply, but that doesn't mean i want to be with her in a serious relationship unfortunately. but i can't help but feel guilty going this saturday and pretending like nothing happened for one evening.

[Million.to.1]

Jono85...

 

Yes you are my Ex. That's pretty much our story... He just doesn't love me.

 

I found our break-up ... hmmmm. It was how it needed to be. The thing about it was that I wanted answers he couldn't give me. So we went around in circles.

We also didn't meet up especially for "1 last time" that was just how it happened.

 

I'm am utterly devastated, and can't stop blaming myself for everything now.

I see how i pushed hm away with my insecurity and making him the most important thing in my life.

 

Reading what you wrote about how you feel about your Ex-girlfriend made me so sad as i know that that is how my Ex feels about me.

I would really like to talk to you more as we can probably help each other with ways to deal with this with understanding how our Ex's are feeling and making smarter decisions on how to deal with things when they arise.

.. if you like.

 

As far as you meeting up with her on Saturday... If you want to "give her what she needs to heal and move on" then you need to have a strategy and stick to it. I can help you. I know what helped me at the time and what didn't.

 

I txted my ex yesterday.. It was stupid. But i keep holding out hope and i need to let it go... and sometimes receiving the answers you don't want, make you HAVE to see the reality.

[Jono85]

Jono85...

 

Yes you are my Ex. That's pretty much our story... He just doesn't love me.

 

I found our break-up ... hmmmm. It was how it needed to be. The thing about it was that I wanted answers he couldn't give me. So we went around in circles.

We also didn't meet up especially for "1 last time" that was just how it happened.

 

I'm am utterly devastated, and can't stop blaming myself for everything now.

I see how i pushed hm away with my insecurity and making him the most important thing in my life.

 

This is exactly how our situation is going/went. I also don't have the answers she's looking for. I have many answers/reasons, but none of them are the right answer for her.

 

She is also blaming herself for everything. I try to tell her that it has nothing to do with her. To be perfectly honest, i'm not really sure if it has a lot to do with her or not. Our situation might be different. We fought, relatively speaking, quite a bit, and it was always her insecurities that started the fight. Really stupid stuff. It always stemmed from her feeling like I didn't care as much, or didn't have the same feelings, which unfortunately was true. So I can't even blame her really. I mean how long does a girl wait? I don't know. I was still trying b/c I did think she was a wonderful person, and I thought it might just take some time. But eventually the fights and her insecurities, aren't allowing for a healthy relationship.

 

The thing is I don't even know how I feel. For all I know I could fall madly in love with her, b/c she is such an awesome person and I feel SOOO comfortable around her it's scary. I feel terrible for not being one of those guys that showers his gf with love, and pleads for her to stay etc etc. I do say "cute things" to her all the time, daily, and tell her how much I care about her, but for whatever reason I've never felt in love. I don't know what it is, if it's my own insecurities about who I am, or something about her. There are some things I don't like about her, but most of those things (her being veryyy emotional, cries ALL the time and not just about us...starts fights randomly...very insecure, but many ppl are so it's whatever) I believe are exacerbated by her insecurities about us.

 

 

Reading what you wrote about how you feel about your Ex-girlfriend made me so sad as i know that that is how my Ex feels about me.

I would really like to talk to you more as we can probably help each other with ways to deal with this with understanding how our Ex's are feeling and making smarter decisions on how to deal with things when they arise.

.. if you like.

 

As far as you meeting up with her on Saturday... If you want to "give her what she needs to heal and move on" then you need to have a strategy and stick to it. I can help you. I know what helped me at the time and what didn't.

 

I txted my ex yesterday.. It was stupid. But i keep holding out hope and i need to let it go... and sometimes receiving the answers you don't want, make you HAVE to see the reality.

 

 

Yeah I guess we haven't planned this as our "last time" either. I have a big finance exam this Saturday, and it has really put a strain on us seeing each other for the last while (we live an hour apart) so I've only seen her three times in the last 6 weeks. Anyhow, so we were looking forward to me finishing it so we could see eachother much more often. So we've been talking a lot after the breakup, and we both don't mind hanging out for a while, without the title, and just to see if things get better or anything (maybe if I see her more often and have a bit more of a normal relationship, without all the boyfriend title pressure, the feelings might come). After all I was getting really anxious about her staff christmas party, and just meeting her family in general over the holidays, so this takes a lot of the pressure off.

 

 

Yeah sure, that's a good idea, you can ask away, either in this thread or by PM.

 

 

To be honest, I don't know what the best way for you to handle it is. I would probably say you shouldn't contact him at all anymore for sure. You sent him that long email (which was really nice) but at this point you've said all you can, and he knows how you feel. I think giving him some space is a good idea, he might just really start to miss you, and realize he has more feelings that he initially thought. I mean undoubtedly he misses you anyway very much, but he might be overcome with the need to see you again. For all I know, I would have been like that had she given me space following the breakup.

 

She's done anything but give me space, and has been an emotional wreck, and I guess I will be meeting up with her again, but I kind of promised I would when I broke up with her last week (we always had plans for this Saturday, so she really wanted to keep them).

 

 

I know our situation is different, but if I had to bet on it, I'd bet we don't end up together. What I'm saying is, I think you're doing the right thing here. You guys have tried for a while, and he's still not feeling it. That doesn't mean for sure you guys won't end up together again, BUT i think it's time to give him space and if he wants you back one day he can always beg. I can tell you that you pleading for him to come back or that you miss it, will NOT make him love you all of a sudden. Stay in NC now and try your very best to begin the healing process.

Edited November 30, 2011 by Jono85

[Million.to.1]

This is the best piece of advice I have had so far, and it's because we have had a VERY similar relationship.

 

I am a very confident person, but i had massive insecurities about our relationship, and behaved as your Ex did. We also fought, all stemming from the same... And truth be told.. I don't want to be with someone that doesn't love me..but I couldn't leave him, because i was falling in love.

 

Please can you PM me... I can't seem to find how to send you one first. Then at least I can reply, I think...

 

The more you mention this Saturday date.. I worry for her. You seem to know how it is, and there is a way to give her what she needs to hear to move on with her life, without it going around in circles. Please let's talk via PM about this.

 

What you are saying rings so true to me... It really helps.

[Jono85]

i just tried to PM u and got this..

 

Million.to.1 has chosen not to receive private messages or may not be allowed to receive private messages. Therefore you may not send your message to him/her.

 

 

hmmm. not sure. i'm sure the reason is somewhere on this site...maybe on the main forums page there's a sub-forum about PMs. maybe you need a certain amount of posts first? no idea.

 

 

this is what I wrote....

 

So you don't think I should see her Saturday? She will be deeeeevastated and will hate me. I look at it as I'm still not sure; I can't say with 100% certainty that she's not 'the one' and it's not like I'm seeing any other girls or have a reason not to go hang out with her (other than stringing her along/hurting her of course) so I'm not sure. I'm actually really excited to see her and hang out with her (and not just b/c of the sex either). I do enjoy hanging with her lots. Bahh.

[Million.to.1]

Your reasons for seeing her : It will be nice to hang out, you miss her and like her company... You also don't want her to hate you for breaking up with her, and you don't want to hurt her.

 

Her reasons for wanting to meet up : SHE WANTS TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORK. But she can't can she? She needs to get over her own insecurities. And being around you only exasperates them, because you do not love her. ( at the moment/ or if ever )

 

It will devastate her even more afterwards. She is holding on to hope that isn't there. Even if there is a chance with you... while she is still demanding your love, its not going to happen. Read what you wrote to me.

 

You are thinking that maybe she is the one... but you really need space in order to know this, am I right?

 

My ex has been feeding me breadcrumbs all week... Because he misses me. I know he doesn't want me back, yet, or ever, it doesn't matter which. I need to MOVE ON. and even small contact with him, takes me right back to Day dot.

 

I think you should draft out an email to her explaining why you can't meet her this saturday, and why this has to be goodbye. Even if you don't send it and you do meet her... Just do it as an exercise. It will be hard to know what to write... But i'm telling you... It's the best thing to do for her sake, even if it makes you feel like you are being cruel, ultimately you are not.

 

I will take a look.. at help you say the right thing.

 

Maybe you could try to e mail me on my user name at the mail of the hot kind.

[Jono85]

Your reasons for seeing her : It will be nice to hang out, you miss her and like her company... You also don't want her to hate you for breaking up with her, and you don't want to hurt her.

 

Her reasons for wanting to meet up : SHE WANTS TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORK. But she can't can she? She needs to get over her own insecurities. And being around you only exasperates them, because you do not love her. ( at the moment/ or if ever )

 

It will devastate her even more afterwards. She is holding on to hope that isn't there. Even if there is a chance with you... while she is still demanding your love, its not going to happen. Read what you wrote to me.

 

You are thinking that maybe she is the one... but you really need space in order to know this, am I right?

 

My ex has been feeding me breadcrumbs all week... Because he misses me. I know he doesn't want me back, yet, or ever, it doesn't matter which. I need to MOVE ON. and even small contact with him, takes me right back to Day dot.

 

I think you should draft out an email to her explaining why you can't meet her this saturday, and why this has to be goodbye. Even if you don't send it and you do meet her... Just do it as an exercise. It will be hard to know what to write... But i'm telling you... It's the best thing to do for her sake, even if it makes you feel like you are being cruel, ultimately you are not.

 

I will take a look.. at help you say the right thing.

 

Maybe you could try to e mail me on my user name at the mail of the hot kind.

 

I'm not sure if I need space to see that. In fact, if anything we've had too much space (in terms of seeing eachother, def not in terms of talking) and seeing her more often for once might be what I need.

 

She was even devastated about that very fact. She was so excited for my exam to finish so we could hang out more regularly and have a normal relationship. I was excited too, but i guess i panicked. But she was upset that I didn't even wait until we tried in December. However, if it was any other month I probably would have, but I was getting very anxious about boyfriend type stuff coming up (her staff party semi formal, meeting her family/christmas holidays, etc). I don't want all that pressure right now.

 

I know it sounds like I'm just pulling a big 180 now and finding reasons to stick it out longer, but I guess there's still a big part of me that wants to see whether hanging with her more often, without the added pressure of being the love of her life, might change things. At least now her family/friends/coworkers know there's issues and we broke up, and I already feel a big weight lifted off my shoulders.

 

I think I'm definitely going to see her Saturday and just have a good time. Try my best not to think about all this stuff.

 

 

I don't think I'm going to draft that letter, b/c A. i NEED to get back to studying lol, and B. i'm definitely going to go Saturday. But I do think that was a great idea, if even to become more aware of what seeing her can do and how it can set her back.

 

When you say username, does that mean with the periods I assume? I'll shoot you an email anyway, in case you ever want to talk to me privately about your situation, althought it seems like you're pretty set in what you're going to do (or not do..).

[Jono85]

Looking back on it, I guess it was very selfish of me to break up with her now that I'm going to see her again/maybe try things a little longer. I was just getting so anxious about all these things coming up. Oh well, what's done is done I guess.

[Million.to.1]

Hi Jono...

 

Yes with the periods, but all lower case.

 

I'm really keen to know how it goes, so do let me know.

 

Best of luck with your exam BTW.

[Jono85]

Hi Jono...

 

Yes with the periods, but all lower case.

 

I'm really keen to know how it goes, so do let me know.

 

Best of luck with your exam BTW.

 

thankyou

 

 

just sent you an email.