Sugarkane Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 This has happened to me before. The guy chased me at the start. Wanted to meet my family etc. Everything seemed great. Then 2 months later he dumps me and says he doesn't want a relationship? WTF? What does that even mean? Lamest excuse or what?
brokendreamz Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 That seems to happen with me and women - They say they want a relationship, but really all they want to do is jump my bones! Fun at first, but it's happened 3 times now and I'm really looking to settle down with a special someone, not just get my rocks off every time we meet! Any other blokes feel like this - I can't beleiev I keep getting used lol !!
phineas Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 This has happened to me before. The guy chased me at the start. Wanted to meet my family etc. Everything seemed great. Then 2 months later he dumps me and says he doesn't want a relationship? WTF? What does that even mean? Lamest excuse or what? How old are you? This is how a lot of guys in their 20's are. Perhaps your scaring them off? 2 months is way too soon to be talking about commitment and such. I've never introduced women to my family until at least the 6 month mark because I've had women just litterally fall off the face of the earth after 2 or 3 months.
DearAbby Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 This is truly about people who are either trying to get in your pants and get some action OR they are commitment phobics. A red flag when you meet someone is asking them about their relationship history. Is it a bunch of two months here, two months there.. or is it stable, long relationships.
grkBoy Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 This has happened to me before. The guy chased me at the start. Wanted to meet my family etc. Everything seemed great. Then 2 months later he dumps me and says he doesn't want a relationship? WTF? What does that even mean? Lamest excuse or what? They are children wanting to live in an adult's world. Seen too many men and women who act like this.
AHardDaysNight Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 There are a lot of shallow guys out there, I guess. I want a relationship, but none of the girls around me seem to want the same.
Mrlonelyone Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Men and women both do this. The problem is that they feel all the peer pressure to be in a relationship, but they don't know how to see the difference between that and their own real desire for a relationship. Knowing the difference comes with emotional maturity and people in their early to mid 20's don't really have that.
phineas Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Or, people reveal their true-selves & it scares the crap out of the person their dating. I had a friend when I was in my 20's that had a serious drinking problem. He managed to stay sober when he had a job but it was party time all the rest of the time. Women usually ran a month or so in when they saw what he was really like. He'd also fall in "in love" with every woman he dated. So yeah, he had no problem getting women, it was keeping them that was the problem.
Author Sugarkane Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 How old are you? This is how a lot of guys in their 20's are. Perhaps your scaring them off? 2 months is way too soon to be talking about commitment and such. I've never introduced women to my family until at least the 6 month mark because I've had women just litterally fall off the face of the earth after 2 or 3 months. I'm in my twenties and I NEVER pushed for any commitment AT ALL. He actually moved too fast for me. I didn't like that at all. I just wanted to enhot dating, not rush through it. His loss.
Author Sugarkane Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 I mean I just wanted to enjoy dating. What's the rush?
Author Sugarkane Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 Or, people reveal their true-selves & it scares the crap out of the person their dating. I had a friend when I was in my 20's that had a serious drinking problem. He managed to stay sober when he had a job but it was party time all the rest of the time. Women usually ran a month or so in when they saw what he was really like. He'd also fall in "in love" with every woman he dated. So yeah, he had no problem getting women, it was keeping them that was the problem. Sounds like just about all guys in their twenties.
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