Lilmisus Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Note: I'm not mad, but boyfriend said he'd freak out and get mad, so I wanted to see who else would jump to conclusions over this. Today, I woke up at my boyfriend's house (after 3 hours of sleep), and we immediately got up, got picked up by a friend and went to volunteer at a soup kitchen. After, we went back to his house, had breakfast, watched a movie, and I took a nap. He begged me to stay for Thanksgiving (which I was originally going to do), but I promised my parents I would spend it with them, so I went back home to eat dinner there and to enjoy my brother's company since he came from out of town for two days. My boyfriend, being extremely tired too, cooked, watched a movie, and fell asleep by 6 o'clock when I was at my family's house. I fell back asleep while I was at my family's house for a few hours as well, and woke up at 10, around the same time as him. Anyway. He sent me some texts saying he was tired but was waiting to fall back asleep. When I asked why he didn't just go to sleep he said "Becuz i'm waiting for u to come " I told him I didn't want to be rude and stay over again, but I'd come over for a little bit and he told me that I'd be way too tired (since I work in the morning) and he talked me out of coming over. We stopped chatting for about two hours, then I randomly received a text saying "Becuz i'm waiting for u to come" and though I could tell he accidentally resent the same message, I decided to play around and ask who he meant to send that text to, and he asked what I was talking about, and I told him what the text said. He freaked out and swore up and down that the last text he sent said "Baby I love you sooooo much" to which I told him I knew...since his phone did that a lot, and that I was just messing around. Apparently he restarted his phone and it randomly sent that, and I jokingly said "I hope I'm the only person your phone resent a message to, especially that one" and he said that he wanted me to come over right then so I could see what his text messages were saying and to show me no one was over there, to which I just said I trusted him and felt like giving him a hard time. We dropped it after that. A little later though, we were talking on the phone, and he told me that if he randomly received a text from me saying that after I told him to not come over, that he'd freak out and wonder who I was trying to invite over and how I miss sent the text to him. I'm not worried about it at all. His phone messes up a lot of the time, and I thought it was funny at first till he completely freaked out thinking I was mad. But...would y'all jump to conclusions like he said he would, or would you trust them and know it was just a flub?
Emilia Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 I think if it was exactly the same text I think I would know straight away it had been resent by accident. I have received plenty of delayed (and therefore repeated) texts too in my life so would assume something like first before getting mad.
Andy_K Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 I would already know whether I can trust a girl, with or without mistaken messages being thrown into the mix, so it would not phase me at all.
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