GettinMeBack Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Hi everyone it has been a min since I posted so since I have a break from school for Thanksgiving I decided to give a update. Oh Happy Turkey Day!! Now I was broken up with in May and was contacted in like June it had been a month and was a rollercoaster since I had let him back in. Trying to work on things just made me a wreck cuz I was tryin so hard to get that old thing back but I finally had an epiphany. I thought that didnt work for the almost 2 years you was wit this kid so I was like STOP. I forgot all about ME. For those 2 years I was always worryin about him and the relationship totally forgetting about my life. I'm about to be a senior in college and I had to remember I came to college to get a degree not a guy. I took my eye off the prize for so called love. Now dont get me wrong I still love this jerk but thats not gettin in the way of me living my life and being happy. I have started focusing back on me and things have never been better. I have taken my relationship with him and threw it up in the air and however it lands will be. Im not puttin energy into it anymore and things are great. If we are meant to be it will be. Do we keep in touch yes, am I falling back no. You be surprised what you are capable of when you put your mind to it. Sorry its kind of lengthy and Im hoping someone reads it and finds some light out of their dark space (trust me, Ive been there too many times). But Im alive and well and feeling great. So I know what you are going through and there is light in the tunnel.... Love & Peace to all!!
BardoPond Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 I know this is what I need to aim for but I can't seem to really get it, you know? Any advice?
M2155 Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 This is great for you, too bad I couldn't have learned this back in my college years! I wish I had felt this confident about myself when I was in my relationship I feel like things would have turned out differently. I can only say maybe this heartbreak was meant to teach me the lesson of putting myself first...or at least not adjusting my life to revolve around him (which isn't something you do intentionally, it just fell into that). I'm starting to feel better about myself and not force things. Good lesson indeed;)
Author GettinMeBack Posted November 27, 2011 Author Posted November 27, 2011 I know this is what I need to aim for but I can't seem to really get it, you know? Any advice? Well it depends how long ago the break up was if it is a week or something like that you are goin to have to take it one day at a time. If its longer you just have to find and remember things you want to do, do things that you enjoy that make you happy. It's easy to get lost in relationships, so you this time to find yourself again. I hope this helps!!
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