Unbalanced Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 I dated my ex for 3 years. Her and I have been split up for almost 9 months now, and both of us have been with a new partner for around 6 months. The break-up was a little messy, but we worked through it, and ended off on a good note. Every now and then we would contact each other in order to catch up. I tried to contact her twice this past month and no response. We both go away to different schools, but now that I am home for thanksgiving, I know she is close by and I am finding myself thinking about her. I would like to see her, but I feel odd about attempting to contact her after she never responded to me the last two times. When I am at school, I rarely find myself thinking about her, but now that I'm home I am missing her and bothers me that she isn't trying to contact me..
betterdeal Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Accept the mystery, and take this as a chance to be alone without being lonely. You have a partner now. Being able to spend time apart from your girlfriend and not feel the need to be with another girl (even as friends) is a good skill to learn if you want to have a long, stable, strong relationship.
DearAbby Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 This probably means that she has gotten serious with her new boyfriend and doesn't think it is right to answer your calls and or see you. It's probably a respect thing. I would not want my girlfriend going and hanging out with her ex during Thanksgiving. Would you?
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