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Me and my ex gf broke up over a year ago over her having gigs (she is in a relationship by the way) after a while we strictly had NC for 2.5 months it wasnt me getting tired of her always txtn and callin me or me nagging her we just stopped talking all of a sudden but she recently txted me and told me happy bday on the 13th we txted back and forth for a while and that was it. it was a nice lil conversion just yesterday i texted her and told her i missed her and also asked if she missed me she didnt answer the question directly she just replied "you still think about me?" which i replied yes i do then she said "i think about you sometimes too but i didnt think you thought about me anymore" im pretty sure she said that because we just literally stopped talking to each other.

but i seen she tried to change the subject and talk about something else but the conversion didnt last long i fell asleep lol but today i asked her why she didnt answer my question which was do you miss me too i told her i assume she just didnt want to answer it she just replied "i dnt wanna answer it" now i dont know if this really is a bad thing maybe she does miss me she just doesnt want to say it because if she didnt miss me she would of just said it i mean who wouldnt just say no

 

what do you all think does she or not, similar stories or ex gf reactions

 

p.s i been through the NC healing stage im good im over alot of things. i just still have feelings for her and i believe she does too we were in a 3 year relationship i taught her everything she knows now we were very very close

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Me and my ex gf broke up over a year ago over her having gigs (she is in a relationship by the way) after a while we strictly had NC for 2.5 months it wasnt me getting tired of her always txtn and callin me or me nagging her we just stopped talking all of a sudden but she recently txted me and told me happy bday on the 13th we txted back and forth for a while and that was it. it was a nice lil conversion just yesterday i texted her and told her i missed her and also asked if she missed me she didnt answer the question directly she just replied "you still think about me?" which i replied yes i do then she said "i think about you sometimes too but i didnt think you thought about me anymore" im pretty sure she said that because we just literally stopped talking to each other.

but i seen she tried to change the subject and talk about something else but the conversion didnt last long i fell asleep lol but today i asked her why she didnt answer my question which was do you miss me too i told her i assume she just didnt want to answer it she just replied "i dnt wanna answer it" now i dont know if this really is a bad thing maybe she does miss me she just doesnt want to say it because if she didnt miss me she would of just said it i mean who wouldnt just say no

 

what do you all think does she or not, similar stories or ex gf reactions

 

p.s i been through the NC healing stage im good im over alot of things. i just still have feelings for her and i believe she does too we were in a 3 year relationship i taught her everything she knows now we were very very close

 

 

 

 

this sucks right?, loving your ex. well she's in a relationship. she cant say i miss you. you do understand that right?. she says she's been thinking about you, well she probably has. its normal, and after time you seem to remember the good times more then the bad. i would guess that she miss you, i miss some girls i've been dating, even though we never where together. this doesn't have to mean she wants you back, so take it cool, she knows youre thinking about her. if she loves you she will come back

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this sucks right?, loving your ex. well she's in a relationship. she cant say i miss you. you do understand that right?. she says she's been thinking about you, well she probably has. its normal, and after time you seem to remember the good times more then the bad. i would guess that she miss you, i miss some girls i've been dating, even though we never where together. this doesn't have to mean she wants you back, so take it cool, she knows youre thinking about her. if she loves you she will come back

 

yeah it really does suck!! lol but i am taking it cool i am not exciting about it at all but i will continue NC just cause. But i do know she loves me but she doesnt know how to handle her situation so she goes with the flow which irritates me but your right for sure either way would you suggest NC still

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yeah it really does suck!! lol but i am taking it cool i am not exciting about it at all but i will continue NC just cause. But i do know she loves me but she doesnt know how to handle her situation so she goes with the flow which irritates me but your right for sure either way would you suggest NC still

 

 

 

that would be the best, you need to respect her you know, but i do think your on her mind, but that doesn't have to mean she will come back

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that would be the best, you need to respect her you know, but i do think your on her mind, but that doesn't have to mean she will come back

 

Yeah i know it doesnt mean she will come back i know you wouldnt give anyone false hope but that still doesnt mean her coming back is out of the question either though

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Yeah i know it doesnt mean she will come back i know you wouldnt give anyone false hope but that still doesnt mean her coming back is out of the question either though

 

 

absolutely not, but you dont want to wait for her, go out meet girls, if your both single one day, get her back:)

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absolutely not, but you dont want to wait for her, go out meet girls, if your both single one day, get her back:)

 

Yeah i have been doing just that its not a good idea to just wait around for her i have to get it moving

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Yeah i have been doing just that its not a good idea to just wait around for her i have to get it moving

 

 

yeah, keep moving:) wish u the best

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