jk Posted May 25, 2004 Posted May 25, 2004 ok, so I know I'm not supposed to be checking his e-mails, but I did anyway. I found this e-mail from a girl at his work, who apparently calls him "Sexy" and he calls her "beautiful." It was a very flirtatious e-mail. I was boiling with anger...I never thought he would disrespect me like that. When we were together he used to talk about her and all he would say was how fat she was. Do you think I should call him tonight and just end it? I mean, first he drives by my house last night, stops, and then leaves. WTF is that? I'm soo confused right now. I'm so tempted to just drive to his house at night and get the truth out of him and end it right there if that happens to be the truth. It will be better off for me because I cannot and will not tolerate playing his stupid little games.
Paradise Posted May 25, 2004 Posted May 25, 2004 You should confront him. He is the only one that can explain why he did what he did. Although you snooped on his e-mail, facts are facts. Idk how long you been together with him, but you need to be clear what you want out of the relationship. You maybe thinking a serious and committed relationship, whereas he’s thinking more of a casual one. You need to talk and that’s the only way you can find out where both of you stand.
jk Posted May 26, 2004 Posted May 26, 2004 We were together for 2 years and 10 months (actually today would've been the 10th month). He was as serious as I was about this relationship. He even talked about getting married and having a family together later on. He made several "commitments" to me and so far he has broken all of them. He promised he would stay and work things out with me no matter what. But then he said he needed "space" over something that could have been solved so easily. He began to think we were incompatible because of the fights we were having. So I give him space, and this is what he does? I feel betrayed right now. I know that I haven't given him a chance to explain any of this, but isn't it kinda obvious what's going on? Or is it just me that see this? He's never been the type to just want a casual relationship. His last ex and him were together for 3 years. So relationships are not just casual to him. This is gnawing at me like crazy. I just want the truth now.
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