RaRa392 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 me and my ex were together for 2 years and 3 months. he broke up with me a month and a half ago. hes been with a new girl for at least a month. he left me cuz he can't get over the past( i cheated in the beginning) he has been taking physcology classes and it made him realize that hes never gonna get over it. He said he has to much resentment and anger towards me but he still loves and cares about me. I know I deserve this. I know i have to move on but its so hard. I'm pregnant with his kid. I asked him if he was happy with the new girl. he said hes not happy with anyone and that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone. so i asked then why are you with her but he wouldn't tell me. I just don't understand.
mike588 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 me and my ex were together for 2 years and 3 months. he broke up with me a month and a half ago. hes been with a new girl for at least a month. he left me cuz he can't get over the past( i cheated in the beginning) he has been taking physcology classes and it made him realize that hes never gonna get over it. He said he has to much resentment and anger towards me but he still loves and cares about me. I know I deserve this. I know i have to move on but its so hard. I'm pregnant with his kid. I asked him if he was happy with the new girl. he said hes not happy with anyone and that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone. so i asked then why are you with her but he wouldn't tell me. I just don't understand. Right now he's so angry and confused. Your cheating on him really messed him up,, how is he ever supposed to trust you? This new girl is probably a rebound,, I'm sure he still loves and cares about you but not enough to be with you at this time because of the cheating. As far as the physcology classes,,well that doesn't mean alot,there is so much more to peoples actions,reasons ,decisions for him to jump to the conclusion that it's "never gonna work",,, there is much more to it. If you want this to work you need to SINCERELY APOLIGISE for your mistakes,, tell him how you feel,what you want then leave him alone. He needs time AWAY from YOU to sort out his feelings,, what he wants. Leave him alone,,,let this new relationship run its course.
Author RaRa392 Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 I have done everything to show him i have changed. I have apologized a lot over the last two years. I know I can't change anything. The past was the worste mistake I've ever made and i have to live with it. I really do love him and I want him back but I don't think hes ever gonna come back, he has it set in his mind. and i don't blame him. Its just so hard to move on. and its the worst pain I've ever felt.
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