cdm369 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 For those of you who have seen some of my threads I finally reached the poin where the loss of the relationship was less than living in the relationship. Last night I put my foot down and she decided she wasn't gonna be controlled(she was mad because I crawled her about texting and calling her ex about their problems 4 or 5 times a week). I tried to explain to her that anyone in my shoes would have a problem with that and all the lies and secrets on top of that. Well...it sucks that the ex's friendship is more important than our R but at least I know. Sad thing is it hurts that its over but I feel a huge weight lifted off me cause I enforced my boundaries. She has no boundaries and I believe that's why it didn't work. Thanks to everyone who has given advice and support. I really needed to know I was right from others. I appreciate my friends here.
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