headsashed Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 as you all know my ex has been popping round to my house on various occasions and maknig herself at home,i never really let this touch my feelings as i believed she wasnt coming back to me anyway but i suppose deep down there was some type of hope left in me that i didnt know about and thats why i never set any boundries,anyway,after thinking long and hard about this situation i was going to tell her that all this needs to stop before i get hurt again. While i was thinking about it she did txt me and it was like she read my mind lol,this was her txt. I think its best if we dont talk for a while,ive been confused and *****,i thought i wanted to give us another go last week but a few days after i didnt and i just think with all this crap thats been going off (grandmother dying) it didnt help,someone said cos we have been aprt for so long (10 weeks) i should have known by now but cos we still talk alot its not giving me that space,im not saying everything will be fine after but it might help.. I replied with ok fair enough,. it was like she read my mind about not talking etc,but after i said that she said she was gonna decide the next day which was yesterday,she came to mine,told me about work etc then went,never mentioned anything about this going no contact crap, i neverheard from her last night,i havent txt her or anything,as i never do anyway,not 1st,but she did txt me a few hours ago about something but i havent replied. She wanted NC so she gets it now,and this time i aint backing down and if she turns up then shes not coming in cos my door has been locked since yeserday.
ChelseaLS Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 as you all know my ex has been popping round to my house on various occasions and maknig herself at home,i never really let this touch my feelings as i believed she wasnt coming back to me anyway but i suppose deep down there was some type of hope left in me that i didnt know about and thats why i never set any boundries,anyway,after thinking long and hard about this situation i was going to tell her that all this needs to stop before i get hurt again. While i was thinking about it she did txt me and it was like she read my mind lol,this was her txt. I think its best if we dont talk for a while,ive been confused and *****,i thought i wanted to give us another go last week but a few days after i didnt and i just think with all this crap thats been going off (grandmother dying) it didnt help,someone said cos we have been aprt for so long (10 weeks) i should have known by now but cos we still talk alot its not giving me that space,im not saying everything will be fine after but it might help.. I replied with ok fair enough,. it was like she read my mind about not talking etc,but after i said that she said she was gonna decide the next day which was yesterday,she came to mine,told me about work etc then went,never mentioned anything about this going no contact crap, i neverheard from her last night,i havent txt her or anything,as i never do anyway,not 1st,but she did txt me a few hours ago about something but i havent replied. She wanted NC so she gets it now,and this time i aint backing down and if she turns up then shes not coming in cos my door has been locked since yeserday. She wants NC, but she hasn't gone NC. Don't reply anymore. Good job on locking your door
Author headsashed Posted November 23, 2011 Author Posted November 23, 2011 She wants NC, but she hasn't gone NC. Don't reply anymore. Good job on locking your door thats whats bugged me,she told me she basically wants NC,then says she will decide,then doesnt tell me anything,then i hear nothing until today,but ive ignored anyway,wierd how shes gone from the "were never getting back together" to "i thought about giving us another go" then she didnt,then its i need NC,hmmm,dont think shes wired up right,maybe its all because i stopped chasing her weeks ago and now she sees im alot stronger and that i keep going out enjoying myself.
ChelseaLS Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 thats whats bugged me,she told me she basically wants NC,then says she will decide,then doesnt tell me anything,then i hear nothing until today,but ive ignored anyway,wierd how shes gone from the "were never getting back together" to "i thought about giving us another go" then she didnt,then its i need NC,hmmm,dont think shes wired up right,maybe its all because i stopped chasing her weeks ago and now she sees im alot stronger and that i keep going out enjoying myself. Good for you . It's nice to see you are moving along so well. She needs to work for it if she wants you back, and I think she is very confused and perhaps hurt as how well you are getting on without her.
Author headsashed Posted November 23, 2011 Author Posted November 23, 2011 Good for you . It's nice to see you are moving along so well. She needs to work for it if she wants you back, and I think she is very confused and perhaps hurt as how well you are getting on without her. For the 1st 8 weeks id say i only saw her like 3 times,we did txt abit but not too much,but since ive moved in here,10 days ago she has been here 5 times,she says ive changed but doesnt know if its a good thing or not,and has she considered the fact that i might not want to get back with her? obviousley not lol,she was the 1 who dumped me,slept with another guy 4 weeks after we broke up,kind of selfish if u ask me.
ChelseaLS Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Look how far you have come . And wow 5 times in 10 days... she struggling. Her sleeping with someone 4 weeks after.. she was trying to fill a void, and it didn't work.
Author headsashed Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 Look how far you have come . And wow 5 times in 10 days... she struggling. Her sleeping with someone 4 weeks after.. she was trying to fill a void, and it didn't work. kind of what i was thinking chelsea,i know this is wrong thing to do but someone been on my facebook and read my messages,twice in 2 days and i think its her,no 1 knows my password and its 1 no 1 will guess,and i think she knows it,so ive set it up so i know if her mobile is used to go on my fb then ill know,and ive left 2 unread messages and see if they get read,childish i know but i just wanna know if shes checking up on me or not lol.
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