mike588 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Well tomorrow is Thanksgiving and all of us dumpers will still feel all the pain and remembering our happy times with our ex.s (if you were together) last year. All we can do is know that next year will be different,we will be with someone that really loves us, that cares for us and wont put us thru this pain,depression and loneliness. We will look back to tomorrow remembering our pain,,our hurt,and that we learned a valueable lesson. Next time we'll set boundries,watch for and act on red flags,not give ourselves 100% without getting something back. Remember tomorrow if your alone or not that it will get better,, better things are waiting for all of us,remember that, believe in that. Your tears will dry but your heart will not die. A sincere thanks to everyone here who has helped me thru one of the most difficult,,, it not the most difficult painful trying times of my life. Happy Thanksgiving to each and everyone of you who is hurting.
ChelseaLS Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Happy Thanksgiving all you Americans! Gobble, Gobble, Gobble!
ken_25 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Happy Thanksgiving Mike! Try and have a good one bud.
geegirl Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Happy Thanksgiving Mike. Try to look on the bright side!
headsashed Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 We dont have thanksgiving in england but happy thanksgiving to everyone that has it,and chins up
maxy1 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 happy thanksgiving, keep it positive and real
M2155 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Happy Thanksgiving to each and everyone of you who is hurting. Geez is everybody hurting? (I'm sorry, just thought that was funny lol) I met my ex the day after Thanksgiving. Suprisingly I'm okay, enjoying time with my single friends. I'm thankful that I've been blessed not to run into him. I am trying to get a life, which I realized in all of this, is what I needed to do anyway. I made him the focus and lost me. I'm thankful for everyone who gave me the tough love;) Happy Thanksgiving... or Thursday in other countries
Author mike588 Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 Geez is everybody hurting? (I'm sorry, just thought that was funny lol) I met my ex the day after Thanksgiving. Suprisingly I'm okay, enjoying time with my single friends. I'm thankful that I've been blessed not to run into him. I am trying to get a life, which I realized in all of this, is what I needed to do anyway. I made him the focus and lost me. I'm thankful for everyone who gave me the tough love;) Happy Thanksgiving... or Thursday in other countries Happy Thanksgiving M2155,You know what I meant.lol. It's a tough day for me today,no g/f no family. I try not to think about her but know she's with her ex and her family and that hurts.
M2155 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 I hope you feel better Mike588. You sound like a good candidate for someone who would feel better volunteering in the soup kitchen or shelter today. Or one or two good long non-romantic movies at the theater could be a fair distraction too. Try not to think about what she's doing cause you really don't know. If you knew she was miserable it wouldn't make you feel any better. About 10 more hours....
Author mike588 Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 I hope you feel better Mike588. You sound like a good candidate for someone who would feel better volunteering in the soup kitchen or shelter today. Or one or two good long non-romantic movies at the theater could be a fair distraction too. Try not to think about what she's doing cause you really don't know. If you knew she was miserable it wouldn't make you feel any better. About 10 more hours.... Yes I should of done that,volunteering. I was doing so well up to last week,don't know what happened,as I said earlier maybe it's just the holidays? You know something honestly if I did know she was miserable,,, it may,,may make me feel alittle better,harsh, but that's the way I feel at this moment.
stunned8165 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Happy thanksgiving mike.. "May our exes who did us so wrong choke on an olive, and may THEY sit back and feel sad for just a moment thinking about being with us last year"
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