tomm Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 you give you love , your heart and soul to someone for 4 years , and you beleive they gave theirs to you . only for it to end suddenly out of the blue and then days later see your ex with someone else and for 4 yrs everything was going good and you've had the talk of how you both can't stand cheatters or liers you start to think was everything told to me a lie ? or maybe they meant it just at the time .all i can tell you is it stings really bad , it's a kind of pain that just doesn't leave you ,it's constant wondering
Paper Roses Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 i wish I had some words to make you feel better, but I don't. I recently ended it with a man who completely lied to me about his values, beliefs and his lifestyle only to find that he simply told me what I wanted to hear. It hurts so much and I feel for you, in time you'll see that it would not have worked out and you'll be happy you are free to find someone honest. I went through the pain, then the anger hit, i felt stupid for believing in him and now I realise he never cared for me and I refuse to give him another emotion. Just give yourself some time, it will get better. Sorry this happened to you too.
mike588 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 you give you love , your heart and soul to someone for 4 years , and you beleive they gave theirs to you . only for it to end suddenly out of the blue and then days later see your ex with someone else and for 4 yrs everything was going good and you've had the talk of how you both can't stand cheatters or liers you start to think was everything told to me a lie ? or maybe they meant it just at the time .all i can tell you is it stings really bad , it's a kind of pain that just doesn't leave you ,it's constant wondering Know how you feel man! I gave my all to my ex. only to have her dump me for her ex. We all know how it hurts and stings,, ya just gotta give it time. I too wondered and wondered about how long it was going on behind my back to where I just could'nt take it anymore,,, it doesn't change anything, it just holds you back. Funny shortly before I was dumped we were watching that show,Cheaters,, and I remember her commenting about how she could never do something like that,,, how wrong it is,,, Yep, lies. Hang in there, it really does get better in time.
stunned8165 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Wow. Sounds exactly like my story. She would say all that about hating liars and cheaters during the three years we were together and then she does it with her boss. And left me for him. I feel your pain man. I really do. It's hard to swallow. In my case, I lost her two kids too who knew me as their only dad. Sucks. But we have to survive.
mike588 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 A commited partner looks for a solution, an uncommited partner looks for an escape.
Author tomm Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 funny how she was married and cheatted on , and knows what it feels like .and has told me and friends ''she could never do that to me [ or anyone] after what she went through'' can turn around in the blink of an eye and do exactly what happend to her to me . i guess if you're datting someone and they say ''oh i could never do that'' watch out . man i hope KARMA exists
stunned8165 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 A commited partner looks for a solution, an uncommited partner looks for an escape. Amen to that. I was committed. I tried communicating for a solution.... She chose to look for an ecsape.
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