avb Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Hey guys, my ex and I broke up 4 months ago..(she initiated the break up). She moved back into town 2 months ago, at first we weren't on talking terms and now we are talking... Lately we have been hanging out a lot, and we have enjoyed on another's company, it honesty felt like we were dating again just minus the kissing/sex. I still have feelings for her, I really do want her back.. So today I called her and told her how I felt, and how we are having such a great time together and how we have the potential of being so much more. She replied by saying things like things have been great between us, and yes we are enjoying our time together but she has yoo much going on right now, and was like relationships take too much time/commitment she's was like as of now I don't want to be in a relationship, maybe in the future it may change. But don't take that as we will get back together. I appreciate you being honest and telling Me the truth on how you feel. I went to sleep right after our convo, was feeling kind of bummed out and I woke up to these text messages from her Goodnight xxo I know uve changed. It shows I'm just not ready, nor do I have the desire to be caught up in any1 but myself right now. I like where I'm @. I'm happy. Don't wanna change nethin to compromise that. Ur a great guy Aaron , u really are amazing! I don't mean to hurt u or tug at ur emotions .. I truly am sorry if u feel that's what I'm doin. I don't wanna b hurting u.. So you let me know if ur wanting space. What do you guys think? And what should I do... This girl is the love of my life and I just don't want to lose her... She just means so much to me.
ChelseaLS Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 She laid it all out for you... she doesn't want a relationship right now. You can't force her. For your own sanity, I think you should distance yourself from this girl. I know she is the love of your life and you don't want to loose her, but can you honestly just hang around waiting? What if she moves on to someone new? You will be crushed and hurting again. Take the time and space to heal yourself. Go NC, she will understand, she sounds like an understanding girl... she cares about you're feelings. Get your strength back.
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