hopeforlife Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Its been two years of my marriage and I am not even happy for a single moments. How does It feel when u realizes that the person whom u got married is not the one who u desired for. Acceptance of this thing is still hitting so hard, and more harder when he everyday make me realize this thing everyday. He is rude, arrogant, and most above all foul mouth. And the second main problem is his family..whom I don't like at all..The way they live is not my cup of tea. Adjustments, compromise is the only things i am doing from the first day. As my husband has made one thing clear that this is his mother's house, her rules are followed here, so if I do not like anything, I have no right to complain, only thing I should do is compromise. I am not complaining his family of misbehaving with me, they never, but never got that love from them also. Like a mother, my 'sas' never talked to me never asked me if I am ok or not, She is such a cold lady, who treat me like that "some one else child has come to live in there house. His 30 year old jobless brother, pisses me off to death. Jobless is not the correct word the phrase should be who does not want to work in his life. whose main motive is to eat eat and eat. hate them all. And above then all is my husband, who has only motive in life that wife's are dumb, the bitches who hate the grooms family. he never ever bothered to listen to my side of story. From first day he made me realize that I am not that sort of girl whom he wishes to be his partner. With him I can not speak my heart out.Even if I tries to he shouts at me, abuses me, my family and only one thing get out of his house. If i complain why you do this only one reply I get that He is cynical, not marriage material. How somebody can be so insensitive. I only hate him. Please help me, what should I do. Getting married to such a person is soo big a crime that I have to live my whole life like this. I feel so alone , helpless living in his house. Please help.
Fabian Montenegro Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 I think that you should get divorced. Do you think that you should get divorced?
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