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Lol. I'm happy for you bro, but your profile doesn't need to be so in depth. Be mysterious. I've seen alot of success on POF and my one paragraph alone fetches me messages. I'm above average looking. I send out messages saying things like " Hey love nice photos, and about me was a good read, genuine." Simple, effortless. They write back happily.

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What was the excuse, distance?

You are relentless, Nexus.:laugh: Distance and age. He's young. I'm old. Although I might have a romp with him if I was ever in the city.:p

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My profile is here

 

I do get more responses and unsolicited mails than most on this forum seem to report, but still nowhere near what the OP is claiming.

 

You have a very good profile and good photos, no wonder girls are emailing you. Since you posted your pics, I guess I'll do the same (still dont wanna post my profile though haha I'm a little paranoid). Here's the pics I used:

 

Main pic:

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/856/alex10.jpg/

 

Secondary pics:

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/838/alex16.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/404/alex15.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/31/alex3h.jpg/

 

If you do any charity or volunteer work, IMO its a must to include that. That's what actually most girls email talking about...

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If they want to see me shirtless they can look at my avatar :p

 

oh, dude, there is your problem.

Women don't like lean men with muscles like that at all.

They think it's icky.

 

I get told all the time ripped muscles arn't sexy.

 

Except on that guy in captain America or Green Lantern.

Otherwise they will pass.

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You are relentless, Nexus.:laugh: Distance and age. He's young. I'm old. Although I might have a romp with him if I was ever in the city.:p

 

Oh no he didn't! He told you you were too old?! I know for a fact that you don't mind younger guys because of that TrainOfAngels guy, so that means Wolf told you you were too old or called it "an age gap"!?

 

And regarding the distance. Wolf nearly has his degree, he can either move in with you or you can move to NYC. The distance could only have been a problem if you both lived in different countries, because limited visas are a b*tch, but you guys live in the same state.

 

I smell excuses. Either that or he really rejected you for being too old.

 

A real deal breaker could be that he wants 10 kids, that COULD pose a problem, because then you'd have to squeeze 10 out Shannon.

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I haven't really done any charity of volunteer work lately......guess that makes me all the less appealing. :laugh:

 

 

 

You have a very good profile and good photos, no wonder girls are emailing you. Since you posted your pics, I guess I'll do the same (still dont wanna post my profile though haha I'm a little paranoid). Here's the pics I used:

 

Main pic:

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/856/alex10.jpg/

 

Secondary pics:

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/838/alex16.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/404/alex15.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/31/alex3h.jpg/

 

If you do any charity or volunteer work, IMO its a must to include that. That's what actually most girls email talking about...

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Oh no he didn't! He told you you were too old?! I know for a fact that you don't mind younger guys because of that TrainOfAngels guy, so that means Wolf told you you were too old or called it "an age gap"!?

 

And regarding the distance. Wolf nearly has his degree, he can either move in with you or you can move to NYC. The distance could only have been a problem if you both lived in different countries, because limited visas are a b*tch, but you guys live in the same state.

 

I smell excuses. Either that or he really rejected you for being too old.

 

A real deal breaker could be that he wants 10 kids, that COULD pose a problem, because then you'd have to squeeze 10 out Shannon.

No, no HE didn't say that. I said that. Hahahahaha and there are no kids involved. Actually that would be a problem. Wolfie wants kids and I do not. I typically don't date men who want childen because it generally goes nowhere. So he's young and wants a boat load of kids. Not what I'm looking for. Although he is very cute, it would never work.

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You have a very good profile and good photos, no wonder girls are emailing you. Since you posted your pics, I guess I'll do the same (still dont wanna post my profile though haha I'm a little paranoid). Here's the pics I used:

 

Main pic:

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/856/alex10.jpg/

 

Secondary pics:

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/838/alex16.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/404/alex15.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/31/alex3h.jpg/

 

If you do any charity or volunteer work, IMO its a must to include that. That's what actually most girls email talking about...

You are attractive as well. Are you short though? For some reason you look short to me. Not saying that's a bad thing, but some women don't dig short guys.

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No, no HE didn't say that. I said that. Hahahahaha and there are no kids involved. Actually that would be a problem. Wolfie wants kids and I do not. I typically don't date men who want childen because it generally goes nowhere. So he's young and wants a boat load of kids. Not what I'm looking for. Although he is very cute, it would never work.

 

Yeah the kids thing makes sense, but the age thing not so much, since that TrainOfAngels guy said in his thread he was 22, yet you didn't seem to mind and went for it.

 

I'm getting annoying, aren't I? :D

 

Good to know though that you now at least have an emergency d*ck on standby for when you visit in NYC. At least you two got something out of it. :laugh:

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You are relentless, Nexus.:laugh: Distance and age. He's young. I'm old. Although I might have a romp with him if I was ever in the city.:p

 

 

You're a hopeless romantic just like me :love:

 

 

 

oh, dude, there is your problem.

Women don't like lean men with muscles like that at all.

They think it's icky.

 

I get told all the time ripped muscles arn't sexy.

 

Except on that guy in captain America or Green Lantern.

Otherwise they will pass. [/Quote]

 

LOL you've been lied to.

 

 

A real deal breaker could be that he wants 10 kids, that COULD pose a problem, because then you'd have to squeeze 10 out Shannon. [/Quote]

 

She's got knockers that could feed 10, that's for sure :D

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Yeah the kids thing makes sense, but the age thing not so much, since that TrainOfAngels guy said in his thread he was 22, yet you didn't seem to mind and went for it.

 

I'm getting annoying, aren't I? :D

 

Good to know though that you now at least have an emergency d*ck on standby for when you visit in NYC. At least you two got something out of it. :laugh:

Not annoying, but I bet you probably think I'm a bitch with issues. Why wouldn't I want an attractive guy 4 hours away from me?

 

I'm like 10 years older then Wolfie even though I could pass for his age. I have good genes, I guess. Thank God. It wasn't about HIM thinking I was some old hag. I can hang with the young bloods, but do I want to? Ugh not really when it comes down to it.

 

And Trainofangles was a phony boloney. I didn't like that at all. If he had posted real pics of himself that would have been one thing because he was an attractive guy, but he's a liar and a fraud. I hate people like that. Wolfie is the real deal, but we want different things. It's too bad because he is funny as hell and of course cute as a button.:D

 

Yes a penis on standby if I need it. Gotta love that:p:p

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She's got knockers that could feed 10, that's for sure :D

 

So let me get this straight.

 

You sent her shirtless pics and she sent you pics of her knockers? :laugh:

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You're a hopeless romantic just like me :love:

 

 

 

 

 

LOL you've been lied to.

 

 

 

 

She's got knockers that could feed 10, that's for sure :D

Hahahahahahahaha he hasn't even seen them outside of clothes. Don't let him fool you! If he did, he'd go beserk. That's for sure.

 

See what I mean about his sense of humor? He's a riot.:laugh::laugh:

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So let me get this straight.

 

You sent her shirtless pics and she sent you pics of her knockers? :laugh:

OMG Nexus what kind of girl do you think I am? Jeez Louise. No naked pics from me. It takes awhile before I send those. He did send me one of his knockers though:laugh::laugh:

Posted
You also said you do jujitsu, ride a motorcycle, and are from Europe. Just saying, before you call everyone out, realize that girls (at least the common cliche of American women) want a motorcycle riding, ass-kicking, European...

 

 

I had a well written, intelligent profile for a while. I wrote emails talking about common interests and still nothing panned out....

 

...so... learning how to ride a motorcycle takes about two weeks... even a girl can do it. (ha ha). I drive a Yamaha Vstar 650.

 

And about being a European. Ok, get a passport and go visit.

 

Same goes for the jujistsu... whatever it is... most people of either gender like people who have hobbies...

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but I bet you probably think I'm a bitch with issues.

 

No not at all Shannon.

 

And Trainofangles was a phony boloney. I didn't like that at all. If he had posted real pics of himself that would have been one thing because he was an attractive guy, but he's a liar and a fraud.

 

True, but nobody knew he was a fraud when he said he was 22. Which made me think you didn't have a problem dating younger guys. Anyway doesn't matter. I'm joking around a bit by playing cupid on this forum every now and then, I don't take it super seriously or anything, just for fun.

Posted
My POF response rate when I had my profile up was seven out of ten women emailed back. I just choose not to internet date anymore. Its because I look like Mr Furley from Threes Company

You are attractive too so that's why you got emails back. I'm sure they looked at your photos first and then read the profile. If you were busted, they would have skipped reading and would have not responded to you.

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No not at all Shannon.

 

 

 

True, but nobody knew he was a fraud when he said he was 22. Which made me think you didn't have a problem dating younger guys. Anyway doesn't matter. I'm joking around a bit by playing cupid on this forum every now and then, I don't take it super seriously or anything, just for fun.

Yes but the age would have been an issue at some point. It always is. I've dated younger men before and they tend to be immature and just at a different point in their lives.

 

I need a f*cking cupid too so keep up the good work. You're like my personal match maker hahahahahahaha:laugh:

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I dont think they took the time to look at my profile. I had four pics of me, and four tattoos, chicks dig tattoos (some do at least). But I wasnt getting quality women. Thanks, I am average! =)

Yesssss tats on guys are hot. On girls, not so much. And your profile was a bit long winded. You may be right about them not reading it. They may have skimmed. I skimmed:o

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Yes but the age would have been an issue at some point. It always is. I've dated younger men before and they tend to be immature and just at a different point in their lives.

 

I need a f*cking cupid too so keep up the good work. You're like my personal match maker hahahahahahaha:laugh:

 

Alrighty then, I'll be on the lookout for guys that are in your age range. *shoots an arrow and flies off into the heavens*

Posted
Alrighty then, I'll be on the lookout for guys that are in your age range. *shoots an arrow and flies off into the heavens*

Hahahahahaha thanks;)

Posted
Yeah its long winded. If they cant take the time to read it, then they certrainly dont deserve my golden penis. I tell it how it is. LOL. Many have read it and were like wow, there are no ebonics in your profile! I am shocked. FYI I never looked at another dudes profile I think the OP has homosexual tendancies.

Hahahahahaha a golden penis? That's a good one. Is it diamond encrusted too? I say that about my lady bits hahahahahahaha:laugh::laugh:

 

He probably looks to compare his profile to other guys. Nothing wrong with that.

Posted
I'd move to Upstate NY for Shannon and her sally swingers. Shes a catch. Feisty and hawt.

Awww thanks:)

Posted

Ok, I'm chiming in here late, but it's pretty obvious why D86 is getting responses.

 

1) He's good looking. Some can claim otherwise, but he's got that in-shape "bad boy" edge about him. He might not look as "hot" as David Beckham or George Clooney, but he also doesn't look like some bland Average Joe.

 

2) He's got interests women like. Concerts, photography, traveling, trying new things, motorcycles, athletics, and especially the charity work. You can all knock it, but he comes off as the rugged masculine man who loves kids and has a sensitive side.

 

Yeah, he plays video games, but to women they see that as a tiny aspect when they see it all. He's the guy whom they can go to a concert with, the guy who will take trips with them, the guy who owns a motorcycle she can ride on the back of, and especially the guy who likes kids and is more likely looking for commitment over "just sex"

 

3) He's established. "started a business in the automotive industry" He's not some shlep who's working for someone making a "whatever" or "average" pay, but the guy who owns his own business, it's the boss, and thus is the confident alpha male.

 

4) His profile is personable. He comes off as friendly, personable, confident, and "not trying too hard". He's not trying like crazy to please a girl to reply, but he comes off as himself. Girls can see the difference between the profiles that are genuine versus ones that pander.

 

And you might then think "my profile is genuine", but I roll back to #2 and #3. Do you do any of those things? Or just guy-centric things that women aren't into?

 

 

That's the secret of success...you have to be the guy women want...not hope women will just take you "as is" when you are not what they want. Be yourself, but if yourself isn't very diverse and is very bland, then you'll fail.

 

My own fiance fell for me because I was confident, I had a strong career, cooked (turns a lot of women on), shot photos, traveled, etc.

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And not tall either, I put 5'10 (actually I'm like 5'8-5'9 but oh well).

 

F*cked up.

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