Author D86 Posted November 23, 2011 Author Posted November 23, 2011 LOL @ people assuming I'm getting emails because I'm good looking. I'm average at best, maybe below average. And not tall either, I put 5'10 (actually I'm like 5'8-5'9 but oh well). And the responses I do get usually have some content, like "its really awesome that you like to help kids, I also volunteer at bla bla bla" or "I'm a huge Beatles fan, its hard to find anyone who likes them nowadays bla bla bla". On a negative note, the first girl I met turned out to be a waste. I took her out to lunch, and although she was kinda cute, she was the biggest downer ever.. all she did was complain about getting fired, her roomates owing her money, side effects of her anti-anxiety meds, not being able to visit her family in Colombia enough, etc etc. OMG talk about giving someone a headache on the first date! Its only been a week so hopefully I meet some more positive girls soon....
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Yet another typical shallow bitch. Yep I'm a shallow bitch. You got that right, stalker. From all the people that posted on this thread you picked mine out. Like you do with every thread I'm on. You are a creepy @ss ****. You probably look like a serial killer. Like the ones that don't get any hits on the dating sites.
Andy_K Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 My profile is here I do get more responses and unsolicited mails than most on this forum seem to report, but still nowhere near what the OP is claiming.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 My profile is here I do get more responses and unsolicited mails than most on this forum seem to report, but still nowhere near what the OP is claiming. Wow you are very attractive.
Wolf18 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 ^ You're a good looking guy, whose tall enough, and got a good job. The text is secondary, if relavent at all.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 ^ You're a good looking guy, whose tall enough, and got a good job. The text is secondary, if relavent at all. Exactly. I didn't even read the text. I looked at his pics. He's very attractive. It's about looks. I don't care what anyone says.
Wolf18 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Exactly. I didn't even read the text. I looked at his pics. He's very attractive. It's about looks. I don't care what anyone says. You know, you are actually one of like 2-3 women on this board who are honest about this. If only all women would just come out and say it, most guys probably wouldn't get pissed off when they hear the same old "have confidence" Oprah advice. Instead of chasing tangents, women ought to give advice on haircuts, clothes, body type, etc, because in reality this is all that matters.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 You know, you are actually one of like 2-3 women on this board who are honest about this. If only all women would just come out and say it, most guys probably wouldn't get pissed off when they hear the same old "have confidence" Oprah advice. Instead of chasing tangents, women ought to give advice on haircuts, clothes, body type, etc, because in reality this is all that matters. Yeah no sense in lying. Although if a guy was busted, I might not come right out and say "well you aren't very attractive." I might have some cheesy response like we have nothing in common or something. I don't like hurting people's feelings. But yeah looks are important. Especially with the online dating thing. It's not like you are in a bar and can look at the person AND have a conversation with them. It's all over the computer. Of course you are going to look at the pictures and judge weather you even want to read the rest of the profile. The pictures are the most important part. If they are nice looking THEN you read the rest. It's just the way it is. And lets face it, it's that way with traditional dating too. You see someone attractive and you ask them out. It's about how they look physically and then you talk and get to know them.
Nexus One Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 You know, you are actually one of like 2-3 women on this board who are honest about this. If only all women would just come out and say it, most guys probably wouldn't get pissed off when they hear the same old "have confidence" Oprah advice. Instead of chasing tangents, women ought to give advice on haircuts, clothes, body type, etc, because in reality this is all that matters. Have you asked Shannon out yet?
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Have you asked Shannon out yet? Hahahahahaha you're too much:laugh:
oaks Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Of course you are going to look at the pictures and judge weather you even want to read the rest of the profile. The pictures are the most important part. If they are nice looking THEN you read the rest. It's just the way it is. It's also time-efficient. Our eyes/brains are faster at analysing "is this an attractive face" than "are those 300 words interesting", so for online dating it just makes sense to filter on photos first and text later.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 It's also time-efficient. Our eyes/brains are faster at analysing "is this an attractive face" than "are those 300 words interesting", so for online dating it just makes sense to filter on photos first and text later. Yes it's much easier to look at a few pictures and then decide if you want to read their novel of a profile. When I did the online dating thing I literally had just a few things listed. Some people write their whole life story. I couldn't be bothered. Men weren't looking to read about me and my life. They look at the pictures. We women are the same. I don't care what they say. It's "do I want to f*ck that person?" not "Oh that could be a life partner because we have soooooo much in common." At least not initially.
oaks Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 It's "do I want to f*ck that person?" not "Oh that could be a life partner because we have soooooo much in common." At least not initially. That sounds about right. But then it's nice to be able to read a little bit that the other person has written - partly because there are lots of things I might read that would make me discard that profile (even if the pictures were good) and partly because if there are no words to read then it's harder to craft an opening email that isn't a derivative of "ur hawt. wanna see my boner?"
Wolf18 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Yeah no sense in lying. Although if a guy was busted, I might not come right out and say "well you aren't very attractive." I might have some cheesy response like we have nothing in common or something. I don't like hurting people's feelings. But yeah looks are important. Especially with the online dating thing. It's not like you are in a bar and can look at the person AND have a conversation with them. It's all over the computer. Of course you are going to look at the pictures and judge weather you even want to read the rest of the profile. The pictures are the most important part. If they are nice looking THEN you read the rest. It's just the way it is. And lets face it, it's that way with traditional dating too. You see someone attractive and you ask them out. It's about how they look physically and then you talk and get to know them. I think saying someone is unattractive outright isn't a bad idea, although I can see a lot of people who prefer comforting lies getting offended by it. A lot of guys beat themselves up for imaginary flaws women blame when they reject them for purely superficial reasons. Have you asked Shannon out yet? [/Quote] Heh, yes and no, we decided it wouldn't work out for a variety of reasons. She ought to treat the boys here to some of her halloween pics though
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 That sounds about right. But then it's nice to be able to read a little bit that the other person has written - partly because there are lots of things I might read that would make me discard that profile (even if the pictures were good) and partly because if there are no words to read then it's harder to craft an opening email that isn't a derivative of "ur hawt. wanna see my boner?" Hahahahahahaha I had nothing written and I'd get stupid messages like "hey, I like your dog." or "hey what's up, cutie?" Granted it was probably because I didn't write sh*t, but why even bother messaging me? It's because they liked my pictures.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 I think saying someone is unattractive outright isn't a bad idea, although I can see a lot of people who prefer comforting lies getting offended by it. A lot of guys beat themselves up for imaginary flaws women blame when they reject them for purely superficial reasons. Heh, yes and no, we decided it wouldn't work out for a variety of reasons. She ought to treat the boys here to some of her halloween pics though And you should treat the girls to your yummy shirtless pics and your black eye pics. Very, very nice:p
Wolf18 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 If they want to see me shirtless they can look at my avatar
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 If they want to see me shirtless they can look at my avatar Riiiiiiiiiight:laugh:
oaks Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Hahahahahahaha I had nothing written and I'd get stupid messages like "hey, I like your dog." or "hey what's up, cutie?" Granted it was probably because I didn't write sh*t, but why even bother messaging me? It's because they liked my pictures. Well, it is a nice dog.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Well, it is a nice dog. Thank you! According to Redrussian or Peepee it was yesterday, my dog sh*ts all over my bed and I suck on his tiny red dick. All that from my simple little avatar. Hahahahahahaha what a sicko that guy is.
oaks Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 If they want to see me shirtless they can look at my avatar Yes, Mr Logan.
oaks Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Thank you! According to Redrussian or Peepee it was yesterday, my dog sh*ts all over my bed and I suck on his tiny red dick. All that from my simple little avatar. Hahahahahahaha what a sicko that guy is. He fancies you.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Yes, Mr Logan. Wolfie actually has a very nice body. If he were to put his torso up there the girls would comment for sure.
ShannonMI Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 He fancies you. I know he does. That's the f*cked up thing. He literally follows me around from thread to thread and comments on my posts. Instead of telling me he likes me, he acts like a 5 year old. Like the little boy who punches the girl he has a crush on. He tells me I'm ugly and I have cold sores. So childish.
Nexus One Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Heh, yes and no, we decided it wouldn't work out for a variety of reasons. What was the excuse, distance?
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