lawlz_xD Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Hello everyone, if anyone is familiar with my thread, you'd know that I was screwed over pretty badly by a girl (I can't even call her my ex because we were never official). It's been about a week of NC and I feel much better! Of course, some days are harder than others but I know it is all a journey and I am looking forward to it. I have been through worse breakups and have come out a MUCH better person, both emotionally and physically. I just wanted to ask... What do girls notice the most in their ex-boyfriends when they've seen them after months, maybe even years? What gives you that "wow, he's really changed for the better"?
ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Hello everyone, if anyone is familiar with my thread, you'd know that I was screwed over pretty badly by a girl (I can't even call her my ex because we were never official). It's been about a week of NC and I feel much better! Of course, some days are harder than others but I know it is all a journey and I am looking forward to it. I have been through worse breakups and have come out a MUCH better person, both emotionally and physically. I just wanted to ask... What do girls notice the most in their ex-boyfriends when they've seen them after months, maybe even years? What gives you that "wow, he's really changed for the better"? Oddly enough I haven't seen any of my real long term ex's after the breakup. I suppose we are very different, go to different places, have different interests and so we never bump into eachother.
lilyblue Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 I would say for me it's happiness, confidence and if the person seems to be at ease with himself. I don't know if they would be "changes", but those are the things that would make me take a second look.
CosmicBoots Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 For me, with just about every ex, seeing them after an extended period has only given me a huge sense of relief that it never worked out! However, this is with the exception of one. I can't give you something specific, it was just seeing him that set off 'that feeling'. If I were to try and give a less personal answer it would be - nice clothes, good hair, nice aftershave, an air of contentment, and a massive (genuine) smile.
ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 For me, with just about every ex, seeing them after an extended period has only given me a huge sense of relief that it never worked out! However, this is with the exception of one. I can't give you something specific, it was just seeing him that set off 'that feeling'. If I were to try and give a less personal answer it would be - nice clothes, good hair, nice aftershave, an air of contentment, and a massive (genuine) smile. I fully agree. I have always been relieved after that it never worked out with an ex... whether I saw them or not. I heard my one ex got a full time job.. which I thought was impressive lol considering he was an adult living at mom and dads, but not going to school. It's move attractive, but I still wouldn't give him a second look.
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