ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Soo... I had to stop by my ex's place (my old place) yesterday to pick up my mail and some Victorias Secret I had ordered. When I got there my ex was on the phone, so I grabbed my stuff and waved by to leave. He gave me the one minute look and so I waited until he got off the phone... he proceeded to asked me if I wanted to hang around and play buck hunter (best game ever... he bought the big arcade machine), and I said "B the only way I want to be here is if we are together".. I didn't mean to sound rude... he mumbled something like "okay" then he walked over and gave me a hug... I didn't look sad or anything so it was an unwarranted hug. Then I went to say good bye and he just kept talking and asking me questions about my new place. I gave him quick answers and he offered to give me his 60inch TV. He actually looked kind of sad when I left... Anyways now today at work, I was on my way to the kitchen to get some cutlery for my lunch... I have to walk by his office to get there. He got my attention as I walked by and asked me if I wanted half his lunch...? Oh the weirdness! Just felt like I had to write this down.
stunned8165 Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Isn't that what everyone here says is breadcrumbs?. Fuuuucckkers don't know WHAT they want, do they. Games. I hate games. That just like my ex showing up twice last week on my way home after no trace for 5 months. Everyone I spoke to, and one person that knows her, thinks it's her sick way of reaching out. Prompting me to call or text her. Well, it isn't happening. It's her turn as far as I'm concerned. I tried reaching out.... As for you, good job on being JUST cordial. Don't fall for the bread crumbs. If they want us, they know what they have to do. Other wise, adios....... Can you tell I'm angry today?..lol
Author ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 Isn't that what everyone here says is breadcrumbs?. Fuuuucckkers don't know WHAT they want, do they. Games. I hate games. That just like my ex showing up twice last week on my way home after no trace for 5 months. Everyone I spoke to, and one person that knows her, thinks it's her sick way of reaching out. Prompting me to call or text her. Well, it isn't happening. It's her turn as far as I'm concerned. I tried reaching out.... As for you, good job on being JUST cordial. Don't fall for the bread crumbs. If they want us, they know what they have to do. Other wise, adios....... Can you tell I'm angry today?..lol He knows where I stand. He has known from day one... its all or nothing. He also knows I love him, but I am not waiting.
stunned8165 Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 He knows where I stand. He has known from day one... its all or nothing. He also knows I love him, but I am not waiting. Thats the way it should be. Thats basically what I told her a while ago. I'm not hanging around any more. I can't, I won't. And I certainly will not let her see me, hear about me still feeling like crap. How ever, she knows I love and miss my family. And I KNOW the kids still miss me. That hurts the most.
Zabs Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Stay strong Chelsea love...you will be fine... Look at it this way...you are setting your boundaries...and if he don't pay his money..he'll never see the show... I don't agree that love is free...because from those that give it it is a surmountable investment of faith in another... Tickets please Chelsea's ex... Much love Zabs xx
Author ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 Stay strong Chelsea love...you will be fine... Look at it this way...you are setting your boundaries...and if he don't pay his money..he'll never see the show... I don't agree that love is free...because from those that give it it is a surmountable investment of faith in another... Tickets please Chelsea's ex... Much love Zabs xx Thanks Zabs Setting boundaries is something I am learning. I think I always thought I had boundaries.. but they were pretty weak. I wish he would pay the money to see the show lol but I won't hold my breath.
Zabs Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 What?! EVen with Victoria's Secret ammo? LOL JusJokes! Don't go blue...you are a pretty woman and blue ain't your shade! Mehtinks it won't be the last you see of him...to me it appears that he may be testing the boundaries..to see if they really are as flimsy as they seem...show him that htey are not...stick your ground...it will pay off.. Then.... Continue as you mean to go on...soon enough...he will be searching everywhere...down the sides of the couch...beg borrow and stealing...to make sure he can 'see' the show! Zxxx:laugh:
Author ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 What?! EVen with Victoria's Secret ammo? LOL JusJokes! Don't go blue...you are a pretty woman and blue ain't your shade! Mehtinks it won't be the last you see of him...to me it appears that he may be testing the boundaries..to see if they really are as flimsy as they seem...show him that htey are not...stick your ground...it will pay off.. Then.... Continue as you mean to go on...soon enough...he will be searching everywhere...down the sides of the couch...beg borrow and stealing...to make sure he can 'see' the show! Zxxx:laugh: That made me smile and giggle. Honestly the VS was supposed to be shipped to my work... easier that way, but it was shipped to the billing address. It's nothing sexy... just some shirts and a jacket... be he didn't know that. He actually opened it.. said he thought it was his sweater... even though it says VS on the package. Oh well. I like your advice. Thank you.
Author ChelseaLS Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 ... now he has left for the day winking, smirking and smiling at me. It's a lot like how we were when we first started dating... oh the weirdness. Forward I must go.
lolita jade Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 I think he has realised he wnats you back but is too scared to openly say it so is trying little attempts for fear of being rejected. He tried the game thing, then tried something else, then stalled you from going again. Then at work an excuse to be with you again. Little things so he isnt rejected outright. Good on you girl I think you are cracking it. At least it is on your terms now.
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