majomparade Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 First, I would just like to say thank you to everyone that has been giving me advice on this girl I like. I admit, all I have had is my heart broken many times , and I am a bone head with certain things because I don't know what to do in certain situations. Everyone here has been a big help, thank you With this girl I have been writing about, when last we spoke she said that she felt I was making her feel uncomfortable because she knows I like her and to back up. She is afraid of any kind of relationship at all with any one due to some messed up stuff that happened to her in the past. I NEVER did anything to pushy, just acted like a great friend, but she kept thinking everything I did as a friend was done more then a friend, and that never was the case. She knows I liked her, I told her, but after so many times of her hinting and saying she liked me the same way, but then would say she just wants to be friends, I tried many times to have a serious talk with her about this, but she wouldn't take it serious and kept joking around. I was so confused for far to long. After months of this going on, I finally came out and asked her whats going on , which I know scared her and caused her say what she said. We are still friends, and this talk happened the end of June. I talked about this with one of our friends who told me NOT to take it personally, because she is like this with ALL who try to love her. She needs to let go of her past and learn to move on and also learn to love herself. I dd the right thing because she is like this with everyone who likes her. Since this discussion, I ONLY sent her a short sentence on Facebook just wishing her a Happy Birthday on her Birthday the beginning of July. She replied with a short "Thank You, etc...", and I haven't emailed, called, or even heard from her since. I was giving her space. Since we are still friends, should I: 1- not email or call her ever to give her all the space she needs and wait to see if she calls or emails me first? 2- just send her a friendly email like "hows things going, haven't heard from you in a while", etc. etc...since she said she still wants to be friends. 3- or any other ideas anyone may have....... Thanks!!! If you need more details on anything, just let me know.
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