ThatGirlDaily Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Please read all.. Me and Ken have been together for 4 months. But we've been talking for at least a year. It's a short time but it feels like i've known him forever. I know i'm young, but what i also know is that i love him unconditionally. We have so many memories together. We've been off and on a lot. Always arguing, and he's always saying how i hurt him.. which really hurts me. I can never tell him how i feel without him saying "my lifes worse, you always hurt me, etc." It's always about him getting hurt. Always. But last time we broke up, we were over for a day and he came back to me begging for me back. Well when we broke up this time.. i didn't think it'd be any different then any other time. I figured he'd come back as always. I waited about 24 hours before shooting him a text asking "can we talk.." no reply. So i figured i needed to try a little harder so i sent him another text saying that i was sorry and all this love stuff. Still no reply, now i was so worried he wasn't okay.. that maybe something happened to him. The last text i sent him said this.. "Well since you're not replying i'll take it this is goodbye forever. I'm sorry for wasting 4 months of your life. Hopefully you can find someone better then me.. bye ken.</3" No reply. I know he probably is just isolating himself cause he's hurt and he'll probably text me after a week max. but what if he's done this time.. he's come back to me every single time, he's taken me back every time. He just recently said "i love you. i'm attatched and i can't let go.." but now he's not even talking to me. His last words were "whatever. delete my number. bye." I hate what i did.. i just wish i could go back and take it back. I just pray he texts me.. just once to let me know he's thinking about me.. I miss him.. i love him.. he's my everything, without him i have nothing. Any advice or thoughts?
AlexisMacabre Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 all i can say is give him some time and maybe he will realize he misses you, it still seems like your relationship is fresh, so his feelings for you may still be there so all i can say is give him time and see where it goes from there and also try not to swamp him with a lot of texts over and over again, give it a break and maybe when he see's your not trying to contact him anymore he will come, creeping himself back into your life wondering how you are. good luck girl!
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