Peter_G Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 She is a former college that I used to work with and get along so well with. I used to help her a lot with her work and I felt we kind of got close. The truth is I miss you so much For me it was never work helping you out.
dasein Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 In the early stages, "tell" women nothing. "Ask" them to do things with you. If they say yes, keep asking. If they say no, ask another woman. The more you "tell" a woman, the less likely they are to find you attractive. Sounds counterintuitive I know.
tman666 Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 In the early stages, "tell" women nothing. "Ask" them to do things with you. If they say yes, keep asking. If they say no, ask another woman. The more you "tell" a woman, the less likely they are to find you attractive. Sounds counterintuitive I know. X1000. You'll spook her if you get all emo on her too soon.
WhiteChocolate Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 As a woman....that line sounds very awkward. I would probably smile and say, "Um, okay?" And laugh awkwardly. And mentally be like, "Wtf?"
ChessPieceFace Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Your apparent interest always has to be less than her true interest, otherwise she will see you as a loser/creep and then it's all over. Don't go saying anything like what you said there. Just be cool and ask her to do things, and be cool regardless of her answer.
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